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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 20, 2011 13:36

 

 

So you are riding your bike with the dude that up until recently, you were his back seat , and he becomes an a@&-hole ….Not saying you may o r may not have noticed this before in other areas, but suddenly he has no motorcycle riding manors….Ya… yeah…and I know a bunch of you are thinking WTF is that?…Let me try to give you one example; Just the two of us…unexpectedly he turns off the previously agreed rout, I follow. (he likes to do this a lot)…I know that he is in the market for buying a house, he tends to become distracted when he sees for sale signs…OKAY..I am ready for that…on a winding cove road, w/out hand signals or jesters he slows to a (old school slow biker races crawl)  in the middle of the street…I stall out in second not to hit him…I turn the engine over and look at him, I yell, are ya going to pull in to a drive way? Do you wanna  check it out?….in his typical style, he speeds off out of sight. I’ve had enough of his chit and I turn my bike around to head back….I have been his back seat for years…since I have had my license and bike…he has no patience or courteousie for me as a rider….he constantly will make unexpected turns and such and not wait for me to see which way he went…When we ride with others, he is well behaved, they are encouraging…I have noticed they have started to make a plan as to keep him away from me….A good friend of mine and well experienced rider herself, (who also knows him) suggested that maybe it bugs him a little that when I am riding my own…he does not have the control of me he used to…that his only way of expressing his anger and resentment is to hassle me when it is just he and I riding…Any thoughts or opinions ladies? Anyone experienced anything like this?

I am reposting this because I got several very valid responses.I have heard from other women riders since, this is not a completely unique issue. Couples riding together, quy is a jerk, when they ride their own with a group, he becomes the most quiet. Not the most supportive but at least the most quiet and well behaved. So yes I asked, him. he said that I just don't ride fast enough and he looses patience. Knowing that was baloney, I asked ,"how much over the speed limit do I need to ride?" No response.

 


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Apr 19, 2011 01:15

Respect and Trust. Both must be earned, you cannot force them on anyone. Keep faith in yourself and ride on.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jan 24, 2011 16:06

Quoting beaujolaid:

Yes I agree, there is alot (wrong) with this type of riding scenario. Fear not, this person is on my soon history. He actually told me that he has  gone out of his way in the last few months  to seek out women with the most promiscuous profiles in another biker site, that we both are popular on. With the purpose to establish an online relationship with them, chat,flirt  and then sit back and joke about how long it will take his (ole lady, me) to hit them up with a friend request. It would give him great satisfaction to know that I could watch them flirting from my cell phone while I was at work, but could not respond. Now I ask you, is that a sick puppy or what?.....anyways...it will be a long hard haul. If it were me I would be gone in a flash...We have a nine yr old together. I must see to his best interest first I need to get this up and coming young man out of this situation as fast as I can.Role modules etc......Make no mistake....I am outta the situation like as fast as I can...( can you say tax refund?)   I appriceiate the concerns....Like I said I resposted this for anyone who, maybe experiencing the same thing and is not quite sure if there is something wrong or just your imagination.

(Junie) darlin relax...I do not want a photo. I was trying to read the profiles of those who had viewed this blog and hit the wrong button....

 



Nice!! Charming man. Bad enough that they do these things. But when they have the brazen ass and arrogance to tell you to your face and not have any shame, discretion or respect for your feelings you know what he is saying about you in his life and how he sees you. Blaugh!! Horrible man. Scum of the Earth. One of the things which made me really dislike Prince Charles was not just that he had an affair but he openly threw it in Diana's face and cockolded her in public and in front of friends and family and courtiers. Scum both of them and not even shamed of it. Look after yourself girl. And to be positive. There have been people on here who have gone through the mill when it comes to picking up the wrong ones and making mistakes. But many did find that special one who respected them in the end. So I'll have a word with God and see if he wont clear the road for you and get you there quicker. JUnieXXX


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jan 23, 2011 21:32

Yes I agree, there is alot (wrong) with this type of riding scenario. Fear not, this person is on my soon history. He actually told me that he has  gone out of his way in the last few months  to seek out women with the most promiscuous profiles in another biker site, that we both are popular on. With the purpose to establish an online relationship with them, chat,flirt  and then sit back and joke about how long it will take his (ole lady, me) to hit them up with a friend request. It would give him great satisfaction to know that I could watch them flirting from my cell phone while I was at work, but could not respond. Now I ask you, is that a sick puppy or what?.....anyways...it will be a long hard haul. If it were me I would be gone in a flash...We have a nine yr old together. I must see to his best interest first I need to get this up and coming young man out of this situation as fast as I can.Role modules etc......Make no mistake....I am outta the situation like as fast as I can...( can you say tax refund?)   I appriceiate the concerns....Like I said I resposted this for anyone who, maybe experiencing the same thing and is not quite sure if there is something wrong or just your imagination.

(Junie) darlin relax...I do not want a photo. I was trying to read the profiles of those who had viewed this blog and hit the wrong button....

 



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 21, 2011 09:53

he probably feels you are a threat to his "masculinity"...screw him.... constantly chasing him and his sudden actions only put you in a dangerous riding position


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 21, 2011 03:14

Photo Request! BOO! Good Luck Girl!! Only come on here now to look after people, fun and wind BK up. JunieXXX PS: Just got this for a laugh to send round. Cheer you up if he gets stroppy: For all those men who say,"why marry the cow when you can get the milk free". Here's an update for you! Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize its not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage!!!!------KEEP IT GOING GIRLS...this is too funny not to repost LOL

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 20, 2011 17:45

And BIG warning sign that any problems and difficulties you have will always be YOUR FAULT! Quit that shit.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 20, 2011 17:43

Baloney. That was the response to your valid question. Guy's a jerk and obviously cannot stand any questioning or even in the gentlest way pointing out the way he is going is the way of an idiot. Up to you but I cut at the signs of a man who disrepects me.


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