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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jun 14, 2006 19:36

I've only been on Bikerkiss for about 3 weeks, but I have noticed something about women that kind of concerns me. They all complain about the jerks they've met, but they never ask why they met them in the first place. I have just finished telling a friend I have met on here to look for certain red flags, and run like hell if any one of them shows up. I thought I would share them with anyone interested. If the guy doesn't have his own address, there's a major problem. If the guy drives a moped, find out why. If the guy has been through detox and is still drinking, run for the hills. If the guy uses illegal drugs, drop him like a hot potato. If the guy has a rap sheet, you should know what you're getting. If the guy has taken anger management courses, it's a pretty even bet you'll be his next victim. This isn't brain surgery. It's called common sense. You look for decency, you can find it. Don't settle for less, or don't complain about what a bum he is. You already knew that. You're not going to be the next Mother Theresa and perform a miracle. Good luck, ladies.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jul 25, 2006 15:40

i am a woman and don;t understand them half the time.but.......sometimes they may be sweet natured and really believe the bull that sometimes is fed to them here on bk just as in life not all women are seasoned ,sometimes their heart gets them in over their heads,been there done that but.... if you walk into a brick wall and hurt your head and walk into a brick wall and expect a different outcome that is where i have my problem with my sisters ...and brothers cause we are all human and don;t like being hurt so i say shop at a different candy store,man if snickers hurt your belly try hersheys kisses , i like jelly belly's myself cause if i don;t like that flavor i can just spit it out


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 23, 2006 21:22

What's that saying? If it happens once shame on them...if it happens twice..shame on you...


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 16, 2006 19:42

i agree, but id like to know what red flags im waving so i can paint them a new color


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 16, 2006 15:36

I have got a lot of comments via email about what should a man look for as red flags with a woman, so I thought I would go ahead and tackle that one next. If a woman tends to be 3 sheets to the wind by nine o'clock every night you go out, there might be a problem. If a woman tends to eye every man in the place, you might feel a little insecure because she's obviously still looking. If a woman is talking about finding her next husband and the number runs into double digits, she obviously is keeping a scorecard instead of her vows. If a woman on her profile describes herself as hot, but when you meet you find your arms can't quite get all the way around her, you might want to question her perception of herself. I guess we have all had certain experiences that have raised the red flags on possible relationships. I really believe that we learn from our experiences. You can make a mistake once, but don't make the same mistake twice.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jul 11, 2006 21:35

ha ha "truth in advertising" concept,gets me in the short rib.and its gettin scarier than that,I see where 'good ol science has come up with a scan that shows the brain chemicals wen they are about to lie...yes boys and girls,meditate on that for a while,they can now see wen the brain of a person is ""about"" to tell something other than the truth.....oh boy,,,bush and his mates will hav a field day,not to mention all the other power trippers,so,,,,soon we will just haffta say to those we are about to get down with ..."hey baby,how about a brain scan to see if yr on the up n up" ha ha ha


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jul 11, 2006 19:10

Hey BK, Yes as they say... "Girl just want to have fun." Then when the Bad Boy they chose to have fun with isn't fun any more it's all there fault. I don't get it myself.I think we need to make better choices in the boys we like so there is less DRAMA. Although some thrive on the Drama. It could also be a plea of sympathy to get some attention from the next car reck they choose.I have several girl friends that come cring about what the guy dose wrong never what he did right for them It's crazy! So I have decided to enjoy every experience and not complain about the loosers ...Sher


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jul 11, 2006 09:38

I understand your confusion when it comes to women, understand women feel the same way about men. Sweetiechic, truly's got the pic here. Basically, most of us to move on & get passed things, we just get tired of hearing & dealing with the same old stuff(shall I say) One thing I absolutely hate hearing a man say is, "I'll call you". Why bother to say that if he has no intention of calling? Does he think, I'm waiting by the phone, I'm that insecure? Hello, These are some of the stupid games guys play & it just gets old. I think most of us are looking for that honest, sincere person without all the game playing. So when it comes to comparing, we just are wondering is this guy 4 real or is he a loser like the last and sometimes time only tells. But if you're a sharp cookie, she'll spot in in a heart beat. So don't go thinking that all women are like that. I absolutely agree with the red flags thou, I have my share of those, & I 2 run for the hills. Good luck with your search.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jul 10, 2006 22:27

I like to think i stand alone...for i see myself as a person who is unlike the next..we are different in many ways than the girl or man next door...so the best way i can see answering this one..is with one question...should i compare you to another man? I think not...for who am i to judge? Lets just smile and enjoy what life we have left...it may either bring us closer or cause us to close the door on something that could have been. ride safe...and remember to smile..remember someone out under the deep blue sky is thinking about you...you just have to find the right one for you.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jul 10, 2006 21:28

Hey June, you are so funny in your comments and I love to read them!


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jul 10, 2006 14:57

I laughed out loud when I read your blog.I probably can't put it much better than sweetchick30. However, I just want to say how much I agree. The deception and the lengths guys go to to make you believe the BS are baffling, truly. If you want answers start with your buddies and ask them why they lie so hugely to get the ladies. Good luck.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jul 10, 2006 12:27

Just my own perspective here, but geez people.....how do any of you ever expect to move forward, if you can't stop looking backward. Learn from the past, LET IT GO, and move on with a better knowledge of what you want next time. or..... Stick to riding and screw the relationships...I guarantee you'll stop complaining. Ride safe all!


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jul 10, 2006 06:41

Sweetchic, I tend to agree with you, but most women who have been around at least a little bit can see around the BS if they have a little common sense. My instincts tell me that they just don't want to.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jul 06, 2006 18:56

You said it dolphingirl..lol


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jul 05, 2006 17:17

sassy ass- alot of what you say is true but if we stayed behind this computer screen we'll never find a possible mate. Not all men lie, just like not all woman lie. But if we go with the attude that all woman or men are bad why get up in the morning. And yes how do you distinguish between a good guy/gal or a bad guy/gal? The only way to try to get to know one is to meet. All the writing back and forth between two possible mates won't get the true picture. I have made alot of friends here and yes they aren't close by. And nothing may come of them other than friends. How do try to trust someone? From the safety of your computer screen? That's warm and fuzzy. So if you have a solution to find the right person to trust, then when do you meet? After one week, month or six months of emailing back and forth? I know I'm a little long winded about this but i seem to get the same comments from ladies that its too soon to go riding when you have asked them to go for a ride. Oh I guess I'm through. bdwolf77


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jul 04, 2006 08:00

Very true bikertech I don???t understand either and we never will. Nice guys finish last not always true.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 02, 2006 12:00

okay - here's the deal - bad boyz will be bad - u get what u get - do u want to deal with it or not????


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 02, 2006 09:03

when i read your comment, "I really do wish that I could make a list of what I expect from a woman", i just wanted to mention, expectations of anyone, are kinda like assumptions.... live in the now of life.... only person, you can expect anything from, is yourself....the rest is the icing on the cake.. be safe, be loved


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jun 28, 2006 18:54

Alot of folks can read a book and learn from it but there is no manual on common sense. Me I know to get out of the rain and how to leave when a man starts waving those red flags. That's why I'm single. I just don't tolerate nonsense. I can be the most Loving Caring woman in the world but most men don't want that they want plastic tits and that barbie look. I like footbal, Nascar, and riding my Harley, Dancing and having a good time no matter where I'm at, that's not too hard to understand is it. LOL


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jun 28, 2006 17:37

Hi Bikerteach, I'm new to the blog, but wanted to make a comment about your question. Some women are just attracted to the "bad" boy type of guy. I'm no psychology major, but its my personal opinion it has to do with their self-image and self-respect, in other words, they have neither. By the way, wish you lived closer to me, I'd take you out to dinner, my treat! Good luck guy, don't give up hope on finding your soulmate...this dating thing can be frustrating (I'm a little over a year into a divorce) so, I know how you feel...but guess what? I'm still looking, and I will never give up hope!


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