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Veröffentlicht am Wed, May 03, 2006 04:38

Just the everyday goings on in my life. I got my 2nd dui in may of 05, so now i have only a hardship license for the next four years, I havent drank anything since 5/22/05, I have worked for the same company for 21 years and have a really good job, when I did drink I was a very funny happy person not mean and nasty. I am having a very hard time meeting women because I am very honest and when you tell them of 2 failed marriages and 2 dui's they seem to lose interest very quickly. I am a good father have custody of my 3 sons, 10,15,17 years old. I guess I just wanted to let people know that sometimes bad things happen to good people and you should get to know someone before judgeing them, would love to hear your opinion on this subject.Sometimes bad things happen to good people

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Veröffentlicht am Tue, May 09, 2006 13:23

Hey MHAWK, Yes, everyone does make mistakes. The thing is that we learn from them. I too am in a situation, but like you, I'm learning from it. You've got your kids, your health, a great job and so what if you have 2 failed marriages. You certainly weren't to blame for everything that went wrong. It takes 2 to tango, 2 to work, and 2 to fail. You can't simply just assume with the other things that have gone wrong, that everything in the marriages were your fault. It sounds to me like you've got your priorities straight and that the most important thing is that you have your kids. I never had that with my father. He walked. Count your blessings and be thankful that you are who you are to your kids. They might now always show it in the way you think they should but they've got to know deep down how lucky they are to have their Dad. Anyone can be a father but it takes a MAN to be a DAD! Keep that positive spirit and give yourself a hand from time to time. Everyone deserves a pat on the back. Rochrider


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 08, 2006 23:28

merrymeet my friend,i must say everything is sent to test us and i take my hat off at the effort you are putting in looking after your children AND giving up alcohol,i admire you my friend and im am sending you and your children my brightest blessings for a happy happy future ,keep up the good work ,blessed be whitewitch :[:[


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 08, 2006 18:35

And don't worry about the chit in your past bud, thats why they call it the past.. It's behind you. Just keep plugging away toward the future and sooner then you know it you'll be back in the good world relationship wise. Don't think for a second I was judging you in the last post I made here, I wasn't. I know we all make mistakes, it's when our mistakes screw it up for others that it really sucks. Just that it is kind of a touchy subject for me, and sometimes I drag out my soapbox when it comes up. The 16 year old kid who used to own the body I live in was killed by a drunk driver. You ever get to San Antonio Tx.,or next time I'm in Jacksonville.. I'll buy ya a Soda, or a glass of tea and maybe I'll tell ya about it. Tom


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 08, 2006 10:21

I personally think the problem is that you are probably chatting with women who want someone to take care of them..when you tell them your situation, they see " oh great I have to drive every where and he probably has fines up the ass " instead of saying hey thats cool, I'll pick you up and we'll have a blast! keep your chin up, there are plenty of women who have no problem with that stuff, as for the others..get a job and take care of yourself bitches.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 08, 2006 10:07

Rather than wondering about or questioning the direction your life has taken...Accept the fact that there is a path before ya now...Shake off the "why's" & "what if's" & rid yourself of confusion! Whatever was...is in the past! Whatever is...is what's important! The past is a brief reflection...The future is yet to be realized! Keep your belief in yourself! May there be no dead ends in your life & no roads traveled without blessings!


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 08, 2006 06:46

Congrats! Hang tough and take special care! AD311


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 08, 2006 05:20

Proud of you that you've been clean and sober for almost a year...YES! I don't feel sorry for you one bit.. You had a choice every time you picked up a drink..just like everyone else. You chose to drink then chose to drive. You could have hurt someone or yourself. Be thankful you have the DUI's that is what SAVED you and those of us around you. Life is about choices. For all of us. Sometimes we make bad ones. EVERYONE is guilty of this at some point and time. We have to be accountable. You were forced by the Law to be accountable , that's ok. Sometimes people can't do that on their own. You just keep on doing whatever is working for you to keep you sober. Find out who you are again. When you're ready, someone special will be there right in front of ya. Until then.. just enjoy life and be thankful you're still here to want to.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, May 07, 2006 16:50

"ONLY" 1 YEAR OF NO ALCOHOL??? "ALMOST" 1 YEAR OF NO ALCOHOL??? THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO "ONLY" OR "ALMOST" ABOUT IT!! My hats off to you!! If you are like me, it's every second/hour/day/and month. I was forced to quit drinking by our government and it was the best thing that happened to me. It has changed my life forever. I can relate about the dating thing. Keep you and your kids happy and safe and the good guy upstairs will take care of you when the time is right.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, May 05, 2006 20:31

I believe these things are called trials and tribulations. And you are absolutely right people should get to know the person before they pass judgement and possibly lose what might have been a good friend or more. Life is to short to live in the past. If I ever meet a person without an indiscretion or two in their past....I think I will have met a person who is hiding things LOL. Keep trying.....the right one will come along and surprise you


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, May 05, 2006 19:33

You might be the nicest guy in the world, but I've got family that lives in Jacksonville. I'm glad you got pulled off the road before you killed someone (I'm guessing thats the case.. please tell me it is..), and hope you learned something from it.. Something like, Don't risk innocent peoples lives by D.U.I. That said, just keep clean and keep trying. Honesty while inconvienient sometimes, does tend to pay off in the long run, you'll find someone who appreciates it.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, May 05, 2006 16:36

I think your just talking to the wrong kind of girl. Bad things to happen to good people it sucks you live so far away.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, May 05, 2006 14:58

Hello there, Please keep your head up. No one is perfect and if the women that you're meeting women are like that then you dont need them anyway because they're shallow. You need support and kindness!!!!! 1-Love Dei_licious1


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, May 05, 2006 08:16

HEY MHAWK: EVERYONE IN THIS ENTIRE UNIVERSE MAKES MISTAKES, AND SOMETIMES EVEN MORE THEN ONCE. DO YOU THINK YOUR THE ONLY ONE? HECK NO. YOU JUST CAME OUT AND LET EVERYONE KNOW AND BEING HONEST AND UPFRONT ABOUT IT. AT LEAST YOUR SHOWING THAT YOU DID DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, AND THAT YOUR TRYING VERY HARD TO LIVE A SOBER LIFE. MY HATS OFF TO YOU HUN, BECAUSE NOT MANY PEOPLE CAN BE AS HONEST AS YOU HAVE BEEN HERE. RAISING YOUR 3 CHILDREN ALONE ISN'T EASY EITHER. IVE RAISED 2 BOYS ALONE, AND THERE WERE TIMES I WANTED TO GET STONE COLD DRUNK AND RUN AWAY. BUT I SEE YOUR TRYING TO GIVE LIFE A BETTER CHANCE FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN. NO ONE SHOULD JUDGE YOU BY WHAT MISTAKES YOU HAVE MADE IN THE PAST. IF THEY CAN'T SEE THAT YOUR DOING ALL YOU CAN TO BETTER YOUR LIFE, THEN YOU DON'T NEED THOSE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE. ALWAYS THINK OF YOU FIRST. WHAT OTHERS THINK SHOULDN'T MATTER. YOUR ONE IN A MILLION THAT CAN ADMIT HIS WRONG, AND IS TRYING TO MAKE IT RIGHT. I GIVE YOU ALOT OF CREDIT TO TELL PEOPLE. IT MAY TEACH A FEW PEOPLE A FEW THINGS ALSO. WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT, AND THE RIGHT WOMAN COMES ALONG, SHE WON'T JUDGE YOU FOR YOUR PAST, BUT SHE WILL EXCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE, AND THE GOOD PERSON YOU SHOW WITHIN. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK, BE SAFE, & GOD BLESS. YOUR CHILDREN SHOULD BE MIGHTY PROUD OF YOU AS YOU SHOULD BE OF YOURSELF. I'M ALWAYS HERE IF YOU EVER NEED A FRIEND TO CHAT WITH. BECAUSE SOMETIMES WE NEED FRIENDS WHO UNDERSTAND. DON'T RUSH INTO LOOKING FOR SOMEONE, IT WILL COME TO YOU WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, May 04, 2006 21:34

I will say it takes guts to make a post such as this. So you want people to say what they think. You say your honest and so am I. I don't think two failed marriages is really that big of deal. Allot of people have more then that. So I don't really see how that could be held against you. Now, two DWI's is not good. I assume most woman don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has a background such as that. And not having a drink since 5/22/05 is good but it's not even a year. Now with that said I have to give you credit for making a post such as this. Being honest about things in your past will serve you well in the long run. It may not seem like that right now. But it will. This is just my thoughts. Others or even yourself may feel different. But I felt I needed to say something and reply to your post.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, May 04, 2006 20:39

mhawk, Who sang the song with the lyrics "I was in the right place, but it must have been the wrong time?" Your a good man that just had an episode..Don't beat yourself up.. THIS TOO SHALL PASS!! Hey, look at what happened to Willie Nelson!!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, May 04, 2006 20:20

Yes I do agree sometimes bad things do happen to good people.Unfortunatly many do stand judge a person by the few things instead of looking at the person inside. It's not easy raising 3 boys. You should be proud of yourself. Don't even worry about what a few people may think. They probably were never woth you time in the first place/ If you come to the Tampa Bay area sometime. Maybe we could have a cup of coffee and chat. Kisses, D,J,


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, May 04, 2006 19:04

Maybe it is not a bad thing, bad would have been your kids waking up to finding they didn't have a DAD anymore. What may seem to be bad is often a gift in the long run.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, May 04, 2006 15:48

Looks like you might have the makings for another verse of Harleyrider814's poem You Didn't See Me. I saw you scoffing at me under your breath, But,you didn't see me, Walking away from Alcohol for almost a year now. I saw you speaking of my failed marriages. But, you didn't see me, Trying to hold them together while working all day and raising three kids. I saw you looking funny at me because I'm a Biker. But you didn't see my boys faces light up when I come home cause they know I had the guts to hold it all together for their sake. Take it from me,It does get better,Ride safe,ride strong,live life,live long!


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