Go for it Lilly .. I wouldnt change a thing just be yourself and the right guy will see your inner beauty as well as your outer beauty. PS..Glad to see you beat the big C
Go for it Lilly ..
I wouldnt change a thing just be yourself and the right guy will see your inner beauty as well as your outer beauty.
PS..Glad to see you beat the big C
Junie2006 write: "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov - Tell them how it is and how its gonna be. Men like and admire the same qailities in a female as they do in a man. Strength, independence and being your own person. A man doesn't expect another man to be giving up his boundaries or who he is or rushing around or bending over backwards to meet his needs. if he did he would just despise him and think him a pussy. If they were into soft and fluffy stuff they would have teddies on their beds and reading books about relationships like women. They don't. They expect you to know it and have clear boundaries and say what you want. that makes them feel safe. If they don't like it they can always leave ratehr than you change your life and principles. In fact a fav old boyfriend said to me when we moved on. If a man ever asks you to change your principles he is not a man you should have in your life. Men hate dilemas and dichotemies in relationships - women thrive on them.
Junie
Junie i have read that book....and i concider myself a bitch a babe in total control of herself...and when i have been called an assortment of bitch i reply well thank you for the compliment...I am a bit of a firecracker in case noone realized this.
i have discovered that basically the question i asked initially was based upon the new girl on the board...you know fresh meat on the market mentality..
I decided NOT to changed my main photo..its My favorite one its who i am..and honestly its who you'd meet Im a sensual woman if i meet the right guy...why should i change?? if a man expects me to be a flash in the pan...well a smoldering fire doesnt flare instantly and he will not "get me" physically or emotionally.
so i am who i am, who i was, and will always be This lady isnt scared of her MOJO...just chosey about who she unleashes it with!
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Junie2006 write: "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov - Tell them how it is and how its gonna be. Men like and admire the same qailities in a female as they do in a man. Strength, independence and being your own person. A man doesn't expect another man to be giving up his boundaries or who he is or rushing around or bending over backwards to meet his needs. if he did he would just despise him and think him a pussy. If they were into soft and fluffy stuff they would have teddies on their beds and reading books about relationships like women. They don't. They expect you to know it and have clear boundaries and say what you want. that makes them feel safe. If they don't like it they can always leave ratehr than you change your life and principles. In fact a fav old boyfriend said to me when we moved on. If a man ever asks you to change your principles he is not a man you should have in your life. Men hate dilemas and dichotemies in relationships - women thrive on them.
Junie
Junie i have read that book....and i concider myself a bitch a babe in total control of herself...and when i have been called an assortment of bitch i reply well thank you for the compliment...I am a bit of a firecracker in case noone realized this.
i have discovered that basically the question i asked initially was based upon the new girl on the board...you know fresh meat on the market mentality..
I decided NOT to changed my main photo..its My favorite one its who i am..and honestly its who you'd meet Im a sensual woman if i meet the right guy...why should i change?? if a man expects me to be a flash in the pan...well a smoldering fire doesnt flare instantly and he will not "get me" physically or emotionally.
so i am who i am, who i was, and will always be This lady isnt scared of her MOJO...just chosey about who she unleashes it with!
Junie2006 write: "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov - Tell them how it is and how its gonna be. Men like and admire the same qailities in a female as they do in a man. Strength, independence and being your own person. A man doesn't expect another man to be giving up his boundaries or who he is or rushing around or bending over backwards to meet his needs. if he did he would just despise him and think him a pussy. If they were into soft and fluffy stuff they would have teddies on their beds and reading books about relationships like women. They don't. They expect you to know it and have clear boundaries and say what you want. that makes them feel safe. If they don't like it they can always leave ratehr than you change your life and principles. In fact a fav old boyfriend said to me when we moved on. If a man ever asks you to change your principles he is not a man you should have in your life. Men hate dilemas and dichotemies in relationships - women thrive on them.
Junie
Junie i have read that book....and i concider myself a bitch a babe in total control of herself...and when i have been called an assortment of bitch i reply well thank you for the compliment...I am a bit of a firecracker in case noone realized this.
i have discovered that basically the question i asked initially was based upon the new girl on the board...you know fresh meat on the market mentality..
I decided NOT to changed my main photo..its My favorite one its who i am..and honestly its who you'd meet Im a sensual woman if i meet the right guy...why should i change?? if a man expects me to be a flash in the pan...well a smoldering fire doesnt flare instantly and he will not "get me" physically or emotionally.
so i am who i am, who i was, and will always be This lady isnt scared of her MOJO...just chosey about who she unleashes it with!
red
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Junie2006 write: "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov - Tell them how it is and how its gonna be. Men like and admire the same qailities in a female as they do in a man. Strength, independence and being your own person. A man doesn't expect another man to be giving up his boundaries or who he is or rushing around or bending over backwards to meet his needs. if he did he would just despise him and think him a pussy. If they were into soft and fluffy stuff they would have teddies on their beds and reading books about relationships like women. They don't. They expect you to know it and have clear boundaries and say what you want. that makes them feel safe. If they don't like it they can always leave ratehr than you change your life and principles. In fact a fav old boyfriend said to me when we moved on. If a man ever asks you to change your principles he is not a man you should have in your life. Men hate dilemas and dichotemies in relationships - women thrive on them.
Junie
Junie i have read that book....and i concider myself a bitch a babe in total control of herself...and when i have been called an assortment of bitch i reply well thank you for the compliment...I am a bit of a firecracker in case noone realized this.
i have discovered that basically the question i asked initially was based upon the new girl on the board...you know fresh meat on the market mentality..
I decided NOT to changed my main photo..its My favorite one its who i am..and honestly its who you'd meet Im a sensual woman if i meet the right guy...why should i change?? if a man expects me to be a flash in the pan...well a smoldering fire doesnt flare instantly and he will not "get me" physically or emotionally.
so i am who i am, who i was, and will always be This lady isnt scared of her MOJO...just chosey about who she unleashes it with!
Ok Ladies stop trying to clothe all the women on here. Charlie? DD? where are you Man. The ladies of BK are giving advice that contradicts your viewing pleasure. I'm looking out for you two but can't do it by myself. Solidarity Bros.
Sym nice pic girl.
Ok Ladies stop trying to clothe all the women on here. Charlie? DD? where are you Man. The ladies of BK are giving advice that contradicts your viewing pleasure. I'm looking out for you two but can't do it by myself. Solidarity Bros.
Thanks very much for the input...quite frankly the pics i posted are the only ones i have that dont have a kid in them...I normally am the one with the camera...
the ones on the profile are from my portfolio..and nope not nekkid... tub top in each of them and well the color one was put in there becasue i was asked to put one in with my hair color....yeah for those mighty redhead hunters!!!
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Thanks very much for the input...quite frankly the pics i posted are the only ones i have that dont have a kid in them...I normally am the one with the camera...
the ones on the profile are from my portfolio..and nope not nekkid... tub top in each of them and well the color one was put in there becasue i was asked to put one in with my hair color....yeah for those mighty redhead hunters!!!
Glad to hear your cancer is in remission Lilly. You know, now days everybody wants everything FAST. I'm with you, I don't find a one nite stand or quicky very enticing either.
Your pic is provocative, that I do have to admit but I also find it tastefully done.
Glad to hear your cancer is in remission Lilly. You know, now days everybody wants everything FAST. I'm with you, I don't find a one nite stand or quicky very enticing either.
Your pic is provocative, that I do have to admit but I also find it tastefully done.
Hi Lilly, When I started out on BK, I had posted pics of various aspects of myself. Seemed that the pics that were the sexiest caught the attention of men the most. I had a beautifully written profile that told much about myself,yet,men did not bother reading my profile at all. They focused upon the sexy pics,and formed their opinions about me based upon the pics only. I had one man tell me that I was "advertising" sex,and therefore I had no right to be offended by his sexual advances? Men,for the most part,are more inclined to react to the visual outer appearance of a woman, as opposed to the inner aspects. I took off the sexy pics,and got less responses,however,the men who did contact me,actually read my profile. So,go figure. Damed if you do.or damned if you don't.
Hi Lilly, When I started out on BK, I had posted pics of various aspects of myself. Seemed that the pics that were the sexiest caught the attention of men the most. I had a beautifully written profile that told much about myself,yet,men did not bother reading my profile at all. They focused upon the sexy pics,and formed their opinions about me based upon the pics only. I had one man tell me that I was "advertising" sex,and therefore I had no right to be offended by his sexual advances? Men,for the most part,are more inclined to react to the visual outer appearance of a woman, as opposed to the inner aspects. I took off the sexy pics,and got less responses,however,the men who did contact me,actually read my profile. So,go figure. Damed if you do.or damned if you don't.
Your picture is lovely. You are a very pretty woman. But Cali may have a good point. I am not a man and some men might perceive that differently. Sadly. Because I think it is a great pic and we should put what makes us feel beautiful. Sweets is also correct. Hang out on the blogs with us and you will meet some really nice men. See, we force them to be friends with us on the blogs so they have no choice. If they can't hang with us here, they can't hang with us period. We are tough chickies that way.
Hi Lilly,
Your picture is lovely. You are a very pretty woman. But Cali may have a good point. I am not a man and some men might perceive that differently. Sadly. Because I think it is a great pic and we should put what makes us feel beautiful. Sweets is also correct. Hang out on the blogs with us and you will meet some really nice men. See, we force them to be friends with us on the blogs so they have no choice. If they can't hang with us here, they can't hang with us period. We are tough chickies that way.
I hope so because my sack is zipped and I don't intend to open it anytime soon....I with you Leather I have to really know someone before we go there. You especially have to be careful if you still have kids at home but the guys on the here seem to be more sincere than most websites.
I hope so because my sack is zipped and I don't intend to open it anytime soon....I with you Leather I have to really know someone before we go there. You especially have to be careful if you still have kids at home but the guys on the here seem to be more sincere than most websites.
who the hell knows what men want or are looking for, but lots of great guys here on the blogs that I think are looking for more then a roll in the sack.
PFFT call you old fashioned..sorry j/k
who the hell knows what men want or are looking for, but lots of great guys here on the blogs that I think are looking for more then a roll in the sack.
Stick to your principles and what is right for YOU. Also do not be asking what men want in a woman or bending to it. You are your own person. Don't chase what they want get them to chase what you want.
"Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov - Tell them how it is and how its gonna be. Men like and admire the same qailities in a female as they do in a man. Strength, independence and being your own person. A man doesn't expect another man to be giving up his boundaries or who he is or rushing around or bending over backwards to meet his needs. if he did he would just despise him and think him a pussy. If they were into soft and fluffy stuff they would have teddies on their beds and reading books about relationships like women. They don't. They expect you to know it and have clear boundaries and say what you want. that makes them feel safe. If they don't like it they can always leave ratehr than you change your life and principles. In fact a fav old boyfriend said to me when we moved on. If a man ever asks you to change your principles he is not a man you should have in your life. Men hate dilemas and dichotemies in relationships - women thrive on them.
Junie
Stick to your principles and what is right for YOU. Also do not be asking what men want in a woman or bending to it. You are your own person. Don't chase what they want get them to chase what you want.
"Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov - Tell them how it is and how its gonna be. Men like and admire the same qailities in a female as they do in a man. Strength, independence and being your own person. A man doesn't expect another man to be giving up his boundaries or who he is or rushing around or bending over backwards to meet his needs. if he did he would just despise him and think him a pussy. If they were into soft and fluffy stuff they would have teddies on their beds and reading books about relationships like women. They don't. They expect you to know it and have clear boundaries and say what you want. that makes them feel safe. If they don't like it they can always leave ratehr than you change your life and principles. In fact a fav old boyfriend said to me when we moved on. If a man ever asks you to change your principles he is not a man you should have in your life. Men hate dilemas and dichotemies in relationships - women thrive on them.
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