Cocktails at an outdoor cafe. By the beach has always been my favorite when I was in So, Cal.

i am tired of the same ol' wine and dine 1st date/or the movies.lets try something different. Maybe go to the billiards, or a walk through the park, or we meet and just chill in the park. Or whatever should come to mind agreeable for the both of us. here's one the park about to open for the weekly concerts (tuesdays) that's good.

Sometimes on a Thursday afternoon I go to see a Blues band play. We can get food and drinks and you can slip out the back if things take a bad turn like when you see me dance.

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