I think that this should be decided by both of us , but something very casal and comfortable for both of us, but can I suggest something ? Can we avoid coffee ? It's so old.

go for a ride on a clear day, pack a picnic for the beach. get out of the city possibly catch a ferry , and scoot around in the country

I think I would enjoy meeting on bikes, maybe for coffee, talk, get to know each other and if both agree and weather permits a short bike ride, stop for coffee or meal and maybe have a few laughs and talk more.

Doing something outdoors and seeing what comes naturally. Of course meeting for a cup of coffee or a glass of wine would be nice a well.

First date....first time meeting someone....lets call it that...at my age a date, sounds so standard. I would want it to be very low key. No movie, cuz you can't talk. A simple dinner, a place where its easy to talk and easy to run away if you both don't like each other. Heheheh, lets face it, first time meeting someone and were both adults lets just keep it simple and let time do they rest. You might just end of having a good friend, nothing wrong with that.

Whatever she liked as long as we get to learn and accept each other .....just have a fun day