NYCHICK.....I hope your sister gives that jerk the hev ho. She deserves better that a cheating moron like that! I hope they don't have kids...and if they do, that just makes him all the more sorry. Children are a wonderful blessing & deserve a good father...not some a$$hole who'd take a chance on losing them for a lousy FLING!!!
Talk about your JERK OF THE YEAR!!! He's got my vote!!!
i do not agree with constructionman's theory that it is ok to have a discreet relationship---buttttttttttttt--he is being truthful to the women here(not his wife)
i don't do the married thing myself--shoe had been on the other foot many years ago when i was pregnant with my son--and i would never want to be responsible for the feelings of betrayal that i felt
but i would much rather have him be upfront that he is married than get into a relationship with him then find out after the fact--at least this way it is my choice to be with him or not--mine is not
and i agree wholeheartedly that if nothing else his wife should know the relationship is over before he moves on!!!!!
it is like he is testing the waters to see if he finds another to fill his bed before he ends the relationship
constructionman----i hope to god your wife finds your nail gun and nails your balls to a railing on the front yard...or maybe while you are sleeping she just might slip some superglue on your man hood, and just maybe you'll wake up with a pee -hard on....ouch........my sisters neighbor found out her husband was cheating, so one night when he came home she had this really sexey nightie on and had the handcuffs ready for a good time...convinced him to let her cuff him to the headboard, and get ready for the night of his life....he agreed in a heart beat...she plugged in her curling iron-turned it on high, placed it in his-shall we say "dark carvan"...and walked out the door....the neighbors heard horrible screams coming from the house and called 911-the man survived (with a plastic bag for desposile for several months) for other areas to heel...she walk away free and with a smile...i know this founds pretty bad, but it is true....maybe we should be telling his wife the tricks of the trade........that we all know that none of this would ever enter our minds......lol.......
after being the one cheated on in two marriages I know the pain involved in being the chuckold. I am having a hard time dating again as it is dificult for me to trust anyone. I am in a divorce group to help me get a handle on this. There is never a good reason to cheat on you significant other.
If this is not a joke I thnk that you are a complete dimwitted entrance to the rear. Your wife probably won't play cause you ain't a quarter of the "man" (using trerm loosely sorry guys) you think you are.
Grass is not greener on the other side man it is just the entrance to hell. You are disrepecting your family and every woman that is around.
So smarten up you donkey's rear end and either leave whatever relationship you have left or take a long walk off a short pier. You and men and women like you make me sick.
I would never cheat on my partner nor would I expect it of him.
So true Eye M...I almost forgot the standards for someone so low as to cheat! Sorry, this is a VERY touchie subject for me! As with all things, there has to be trust...the poor woman that should crush his balls surely can't trust this one!
Ride safely all!