I?m a female student and I am seriously confused about my sexuality. I spend most of my social life getting drunk, so that I don?t have to face this problem. I have dated guys, but I never get very close to them. Girls make me feel safe and I can relate better to them. I may sound like I am straight and they are just best friend, but I recently met a girl at university and took an instant liking to her and dated her a few times ?that?s different to the way I feel about my other mater; I just want to be near her. I?d love to tell her about my feelings, but I don?t know her well enough and she can blab to other and made my life a misery.
jonekate23 write: I?m a female student and I am seriously confused about my sexuality. I spend most of my social life getting drunk, so that I don?t have to face this problem. I have dated guys, but I never get very close to them. Girls make me feel safe and I can relate better to them. I may sound like I am straight and they are just best friend, but I recently met a girl at university and took an instant liking to her and dated her a few times ?that?s different to the way I feel about my other mater; I just want to be near her. I?d love to tell her about my feelings, but I don?t know her well enough and she can blab to other and made my life a misery.
Should I date men only, am I straight?
Kate Jones
I'll put on a wig and you can do what you want. I won't mind that you are strange.
FLBiker714 write: Here's my advice. First of all...post a picture of you, not the one that came with the camera. Your description says you're black with dark blonde hair. So, all the bullshit aside, I will continute. Secondly, I don't find this childish behavior amusing at all, as it really makes it difficult to sift through the truly bi women on here. Thirdly, YOU'RE IN FREAKING ARMENIA FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!! WHY WOUULD I CARE WHO YOU SLEEP WITH? MOVE OUT OF THAT THIRD WORLD COUNTRY AND MOVE IN NEXT TO ME AND MAYBE I'D GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL BEHAVIOR. This has been an unpaid, unpolitical announcement. You may all go back to your average lives.
absolutely beautifully put. FLbiker you are poetic. scammers and pshycos come in all breeds. take it easy ...kitten
FLBiker714 write: Here's my advice. First of all...post a picture of you, not the one that came with the camera. Secondly, I don't find this childish behavior amusing at all, as it really makes it difficult to sift through the truly bi women on here.
Here's my advice. First of all...post a picture of you, not the one that came with the camera. Your description says you're black with dark blonde hair. So, all the bullshit aside, I will continute. Secondly, I don't find this childish behavior amusing at all, as it really makes it difficult to sift through the truly bi women on here. Thirdly, YOU'RE IN FREAKING ARMENIA FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!! WHY WOUULD I CARE WHO YOU SLEEP WITH? MOVE OUT OF THAT THIRD WORLD COUNTRY AND MOVE IN NEXT TO ME AND MAYBE I'D GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL BEHAVIOR. This has been an unpaid, unpolitical announcement. You may all go back to your average lives.
I had to make a comment now!!!! I didn't read her profile. She may have forgotten to check the right box for her ethnicity, the other shit cracked me up.. Look at her discription and then her match..Same thing.. Come on peeps give the confused girl a break she is trying to find herself!!!!!!
jonekate23 write: I?m a female student and I am seriously confused about my sexuality. I spend most of my social life getting drunk, so that I don?t have to face this problem. I have dated guys, but I never get very close to them. Girls make me feel safe and I can relate better to them. I may sound like I am straight and they are just best friend, but I recently met a girl at university and took an instant liking to her and dated her a few times ?that?s different to the way I feel about my other mater; I just want to be near her. I?d love to tell her about my feelings, but I don?t know her well enough and she can blab to other and made my life a misery.
jonekate23 write: I?m a female student and I am seriously confused about my sexuality. I spend most of my social life getting drunk, so that I don?t have to face this problem. I have dated guys, but I never get very close to them. Girls make me feel safe and I can relate better to them. I may sound like I am straight and they are just best friend, but I recently met a girl at university and took an instant liking to her and dated her a few times ?that?s different to the way I feel about my other mater; I just want to be near her. I?d love to tell her about my feelings, but I don?t know her well enough and she can blab to other and made my life a misery.
Should I date men only, am I straight?
Kate Jones
Be confused for as long as it takes. You may simply like both.
I just had to reply to your post. I looked at your profile and you stated that you are looking for a women; so, I think you know what you want. Seems like your religion (LDS) will not support your selection in partners. Why is your pic of a white women and you stated your ethnicity is Black/African Descent. Are you s****** us? If you meet a gal you like, and you believe coming out to her might socially hurt you, then don't.
If you are spending most of your life getting drunk at 22, you're missing out on a lot of life. And drinking to avoid a problem or issue never works - the problem or issue is still there when you sober up.
As to your sexuality issues, why does it matter what we think? What you need to determine is why you feel safer with women than with men. I would suspect something bad happened with one or two relationships with guys, and other women can easily identify with that. This is something that you should probably discuss with a psychologist rather than a bunch of bikers. This is because people in general will direct you to date men or women based on their own personal agendas without finding out the underlying reasons for your confusion.
Good luck, and however you decide to handle this and whatever the outcome; safe journeys.