I'd really like to know how many are looking for the real deal, actually seeing, touching,getting to know, good , bad, everybody has some faults, etc, etc. or is everyone looking for that elusive perfect love that we put so high up that to reach is impossible? learning and growing are part of the dance.

I think the perfect love is purely subjective. Many confuse it with lust. I think it's a combination of factors - similar interests. These change over the years though - I've found there is a big difference between my priorities now and 20 years ago. It also includes the environment we are in.

Hi! That's something I really feel sometimes. As you say putting love in the highest way so it seems impossible, you always wonder what could be better or what could be worse? But even if you are not satisfied everytime, you know that love is not something you give and take back as wishes it is more complex, cause most of dreams are not true, but love is!