I want a bestfriend, someone who makes me feel safe enough to tell all my secrets to. Someone who in turn feels safe enough to tell me all of his, being positive and secure of the fact that there is no place for judgement when we expose ourselves.

Not only do I want that I also have it! I have known where it was all along but had to work on myself in order to achieve it with him.

Its not easy to be capable of REAL love.. our past creates some real problems in our ability to accept another completely, even the parts that make us insecure. I finally figured out that I could not get Real deep true love from him until I dealt with my own inner self!

Once I was able to do that? Everything I ever dreamed love could be...WAS!

I
m almost inclined to agree with you Angel on "Men moving on in the end" it does seem that way.

a liar and cheater, who isn't even a decent roomate

WOW YOU ARE REALLY CHOOOOSY...

A Roommate....

Good topic of conversation.
My ex... let me see.. Thought he was a kind, caring, loving, and HONEST man. Turns out he married me to get into the USA. Throw me for a loop? Oh yes it did, but just for a hot minute. Nothing I could do to change it, so I had to move on and NOT dwell on it.
I require only one thing from my relationship. HONESTY!!! For all the rest will and has fallen into place. Always remember that relationships take work.

ok ill tell u my thoughts on my ex......

a drunk

a deer hunter

a football betting fool

spent all his time off with the guys

did not provide for me or the children

for all holidays he spent them with his family while i sat at home

never believed in going out any where

spent the night with his girl friend while i was in hospital having his baby girl

took parts off my car so i could not go any where

stayed high and drunk most of the time

stole money from me that i worked hard for

said over and over again ill never do it again ill change

NEVER EVER gave me money for any thing

accused me of always running around with my boss at work ,hummmmmm must have been a guilty consious

am i happy now ? hell yea

why havent i dated much? not going to make that mistake again -i will be very careful this time around.

do i hate him? no i dont i feel sorry for him cause he is the one living in sorrow now.

do i care about him now ? no i dont not even for a friend.

have i forgiven him ? yes i had to had too much anger on me had to let it go......

am i still dealing with him cause of my 16 year old daughter?

nope not at all we bypass each other nothing we have to talk about .

am i bitter? angry? nontrusting ?

no not at all cause i know not every one is like my ex and some day i will meet mr. right

am i lonely? i am ok peaceful, happy.enjoying life ,meeting new people ,just being me and liking it

i will be patient for some one to treat me like a lady and respect me and love me for who i am.

i will wait on that special person to enjoy life with .

its worth it to me ......

ok here is mine .......lets see if you can outdo this ......

I'll reply...the next thing I want in a relationship???? OUT!!!!! I don't want a relationship, ever again! I want to be able to be friends and move on...that's what men do in the end anyway...move on.