Sweetcakes I'm not sure if you have seen my responce to your question as I mailed it directly to you but here it is:
Seems to me we talked a few years ago while I was still working? I know as a sober man, it's been very difficult trying to find a compatible sober riding mate who doesn't live clear across the US or up in Canada that I can get to know on more than a once in a year get-2-gether. Now BikerPlanet has filters to indicate drinker or non drinker. So far most everyone I come into contact with lives 150 or so miles away. I've ridden thousands of miles just for a date, only to come up empty handed. Since I've been very active in AA/NA/CA/Alanon as a sober rider. I've only met a few lady riders who own their own bikes and over a hundred who have been looking for a back seat, none of which match my specific searches. So I guess all I can do is recommend you either take riding classes and get your own or find a sober group and just hang around and make friends with the ladies of the group. There's always a guy or two who always have an empty seat. Good luck and God bless!