I don't smoke and never have. But when I started talking to my guy (he is a smoker) I decided I couldn't let the fact he smokes get in the way of the chance to maybe build something with a really good man. He doesn't smoke in my home or in my car, no one does. That's just my boundaries. Smoking isn't healthy, but I just can't pass up a good man because of that. Hey, I'm far from perfect myself.
I don't smoke, never have. But it does not bother me to date someome that does. I can handle the smoking (legal stuff anyway) but if you want to stay drunk all the time, pass me by.