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Posted on Sun, Sep 28, 2008 15:18

The answer to that is no - unless he is in a pine box.

After the living he!! he has put me through & that I completely mistrust him.

I forgive him however, I will not forget what he has done & I am not stupid.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 14, 2006 19:45

Well this is an easy 1 to answer.. HELL NO, I wouldn,t take my Ex back.. afterall there is a reason why he,s my ex.

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Posted on Sat, Aug 19, 2006 16:38

after sixteen years of marriage and two teenagers later,mine tells me he wants a another lifestyle,and told our kids and myself we could no longer live there .



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Posted on Sat, Aug 12, 2006 04:56

Rescue1 you made me laugh outloud while reading this. anyway, I wouldnt take my ex back now, its been ten yrs since I divorced him. I feel its always best to move on and cherish the old good memories ...make new positive ones...ok now, any single nice bikers our there between 45and 59 ? LOL
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Posted on Thu, Aug 10, 2006 15:44

Kzbiker...hopefully you'll get my message on the blogs,,if they haven't taken it out, my email is there.

Lynn



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Posted on Thu, Aug 03, 2006 12:02

Met someone at Biketoberfest last year, had a great time there. Then he started calling me (he was in Kentucky, I am in Florida). January 1st he moved down here, lasted til Valentines Day, he went back to Kentucky. Really hurt at first, then he started calling me, he wanted to come back. So I decided to give him another chance, That was May, well 7/31 he headed back to Kentucky. Morale of this story, if it isn't good the first time it won't be any better the 2nd time.....:)



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Posted on Mon, Jul 24, 2006 13:05

Have you ever overcooked a steak? Throwing it back on the grill for another round isn't going to fix it. I've become much more forgiving as I've aged, but there is a line and once it's crossed, there's no going back. Stick a fork in her... she's done.



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Posted on Fri, Jul 21, 2006 20:48

why would you want anybodys sloppy seconds?

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 02, 2006 10:41

Amuk1960 write:
I would rather be striped naked, rubbed down with bacon and tossed into a cage full of rabid Badgers

Cmon now, you brought too many variables into that post to tell if it was fun you were talkin about or torture. Like, who's doin the bacon rubbin? Where are they rubbin it? And, for how long? Oh yeah, and do those badgers know how vicious I could get for just the right kind of bacon rubdown?

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 02, 2006 09:33

this is really one of those damned if you do damned if you don't situations. either you keep stepping and look back wondering if the choice was right or go back and get it emblazed in your memory why you left in the first place.



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Posted on Wed, Jun 28, 2006 05:48

Roxie0215 write:
I hope you all will bear with me as I type, because my heart is broken. If you read the forums and post regulary then you probally know I met someone from BK about 5 months ago. We fell hard and we fell fast. Yes, it was a long distance relationship, so some might say it was doomed from the start.
He flew me to see him in July and we had a great time, we made plans for him to come and visit me next. Well, he was supposed to have arrived last night, instead I got that dreaded ph8ne call, the one that you can tell by the sound of his voice that it isn't gonna be pretty. Bottom line is, his exwife had started calling, seems the kids (her kids) are out of the house and now she's lonely and wants him back. He says he is still in love with her and chose her instead of pursuing me. OUCH!!! Needless to say, I cried but maintained my dignity, told him goodbye and cried myself to sleep. Today was pretty rough, but I'll be fine.
I really thought I had found someone special (well, he found me)Just goes to show, you never can tell.
Thanks everyone for listening, just had to get this off my chest and wanted some feedback.

There are others. If it was meant to be you would still be with him. Get over it. It was only 5 months. And, evidently you were just a rebound with him. I don't mean to be cruel but it is true.



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Posted on Wed, Jun 28, 2006 02:54

ilove2ride write:
HNSFN!
H&ll No Sheet F<>k No - would I go back to my ex. I escaped with my sanity and would never risk coming that close to losing it again.

The point of life is to move forward, not backward.

sanity isn't all it's cracked up to. lost mine somewhere in my teens and rarely miss it



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Posted on Tue, Jun 27, 2006 17:46

as glib as i try to be i am a hopless romantic. i have a hard time acceptin love doesn't conquer all. in ealier years i wound up with a rule no seconds to protect against such obivous disappointment. now that i'm old (not really wiser) i have again broken my rule. the only positive i can see is that getting this badly burnt i'll steer clear of this one (then agin they call me DUMBASS for a reason) anyay at least if i manage to walk this time there won't be any looking back with what ifs



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Posted on Fri, May 26, 2006 05:38

SNJGal write:
funny question. After 14 years apart he asked me that question. Yikes. lolol

Well you want me anyway. LOL



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Posted on Fri, May 19, 2006 23:24

WarHippy write:
.... Nope, once I'm done, you can ship all my ex'es to Texas, and then put up some strong sharp concertina wire with trip flares and claymore mines all along the length of it.


Just sent mine of ten years to Texas and feel sorry for the women there...... Thanks for the laugh......



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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 09:20

Roxie0215 write:
Hi everyone...I took a break fromm BK for awhile and I was catching up on some of the forums, when I came across this....can't believe it's still going!
Thanks to all who've posted, winked, encouraged and sent emails.

All is well in my life, met someone outside of BK, he's a biker and a real sweetheart.

Good to see you here again Roxie! Miss your kind words, words of wisdom & your peacefulness...I'm so very happy for you that you've met someone...you deserve it! Hugs...

  


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Posted on Wed, May 10, 2006 14:20

once its over, its over..kinda like old toast, still crunchy but not the same.



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Posted on Tue, May 09, 2006 17:09

SNJGal write:
funny question. After 14 years apart he asked me that question. Yikes. lolol

what did you say.....lmao

  


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Posted on Mon, May 08, 2006 19:54

funny question. After 14 years apart he asked me that question. Yikes. lolol



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Posted on Sat, Apr 29, 2006 21:15

hey Roxy glad to hear your doing well and that you met somebody new, that always help forget about your X. That is exactly what i need... take it easy :)



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