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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Dec 20, 2005 14:57

heritage99 write:
If someone wants out, that means they don't want to be with you. Period. Why let them back in? It'll only bite you in the ...... in the end.
If someone wants out, that means they don't want to be with you. Period. Why let them back in? It'll only bite you in the...... in the end.


I like this one its so true lol and i could not reply to this without removinbg all the a s ss words how bizarre is that

  


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Dec 19, 2005 14:31

I been divorced getting close to about 10 years.This is the first dating site I have joined I have met people from the chat rooms m sn,yahell,both I almost got remarried once thought it would be great then when she started moving in she kinda lost it ,by that I meen she had some phsycotic episodes, had to go spend sometime in the hospital,I guess I have a sheltered life that was strange to me, she decided that she would have to work out her problemson her own.So, anyway I have been kinda leary about on line relations.I hope someday to find the right lady one who will be understanding,and will live with both feet on the ground but always looking up for more,Yea I like to dream,but I know it takes hard work and determination to make it I want a woman who won;t give in or give up ,i survive day to day.I enjoy what my life has to offer and wish for someone who can feel the same if it' rolling down the highway on the way to a big bike meet or fishing out on a big lake and camping under the stars,hearing the song of nature calling.I am a pretty simple person don;t take that much to make me happy I wish to find a lady who is happy with herself,because i believe that if you can;t be happy with yourself you can never be happy with anyone else.So let me know if this makes sense to some of you ,does to me .



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Dec 19, 2005 14:25

AMEN! Lunar !



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Dec 19, 2005 05:10

Here is my 2 cents for what it is worth. I am one of those that is seperated. Have been since april '05. After what happenend to me, there will be no 2nd chance. But there are other things in the fire right now, including an adoption on my part, that needs to be worked out b4 the divorce can be finalized. Until then I am here to meet people, maybe I will meet Miss Right ...maybe not. But I hope to make some friends in the process. But I am not actively seeking anyone. If it happens great...if not, that's fine too. I too believe in honesty and straight-forwardness, and will answer any questions about it if asked.



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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Dec 18, 2005 17:53

Fret not Noty .... it happened once, it will happen again, not that I'm wishing it on you .... bikers are a different breed. I have learned to take each day as a blessing and I have no expectations. This way I am never disappointed, and I will always have my smile. Just remember, everyone comes into your life for a reason. This guy left something behind. You just have to find it, learn from it, remember it, and be thankful for it. :) PEACE

  


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Dec 18, 2005 16:31

notythots write:
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..

I met two different people on THIS site that sort of happened like that. I went out with one on 3 dates and we had a great time. Then, POOF, she was overwhelmed or something.

Then I went out with another and we had a really good time for a weekend. Then the same thing.
I treated very well and I don't quite get it. I would really like to meet someone, but maybe this isn't the right place.



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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Dec 18, 2005 09:26

Shovelhead,

I agree about the hurting with the truth rather the a lie - but a person can have some tact.

As far as second chances - Have you never needed a second chance about anything??? WOW !! Why don't I believe that. Comes off sounding pretty darned arrogant.

A person can run from a relationship for any number of reasons. Sometimes the relationship is lost and once in a while it simply needs a little time. Sometimes it might even take being with someone else for one person to realize how much the other person really means to them. ( I don't condone infidelity in a marriage or commited relationship -if you want to do that - break up first!)

I am a big believer in second chances under the right circumstances ( 3 times and you're out!). I am also a big believer in "if it isn't right for one of you , it isn't right for either of you." But, remember, "you snooze, you can lose"; I won't ever be sitting around waiting for someone to come to their senses - life is too short.

JMO



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Dec 16, 2005 20:04

Excellently put jerryw13!



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Dec 16, 2005 20:03

heritage99 write:
If someone wants out, that means they don't want to be with you. Period. Why let them back in? It'll only bite you in the a$$ in the end.


Not always true. Sometimes people need to get out to be in. I run,I know I do it. I try not to. Sometimes I want to go back. Sometimes I can't. Sometimes, I'm just scared like most people.



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Dec 10, 2005 15:18

I tell women that I will hurt them with the truth long before I hurt them with a lie. I didn't give my ex's a second chance, and I loved them enough to marry them, so why would I give someone else a second chance. Harsh but true words, and I live by them. Single at the moment, could have something to do with it. But I wouldn't have it any other way.



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Nov 22, 2005 09:19

Sad but true. Some men are just idiots. Some women are too of course.

Whatever you do don't give an idiot a second chance. You deserve better than that



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Nov 14, 2005 22:16

LOL @ ever ready, I find Duracell lasts longer



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Nov 14, 2005 19:01

Happy 2 crack you up....

  


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Nov 12, 2005 21:07

So the men are acting like women?



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Nov 12, 2005 19:24

LOL Flip @ kickin tires.. done that enough times.. heck some people live in the same town and can,t get time to meet.. I decided to just give up searchin & lookin, and live my life to my fullest even if it means doin it alone

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Nov 10, 2005 02:28

Hey ya noty you know better than that....probably 70% are players in some form or another each, with ones own aggenda ...keep the faith and kickin tires ....you'll find it !!

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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Nov 08, 2005 13:45

jerryw13 write:
Gotta say you're wrong, PB You're the one who gets to decide whether your feelings and misgivings about this guy puts YOU into the 'not ready for a relationship' category, or whether you want to take the chance of passing those exact feelings you've just experienced along to the next few folks you meet. Human judgement, it ain't perfect, and it sometimes ain't pretty, but it's as individual as each of us are. That's part of the meeting and learning process.

I sincerely hope the one who is worth your tears never makes you cry, but I fall back on the 'individuality' defense, and believe that the imperfections of all of us will make us cry at one time or another. Love is when we bite the bullet and realize the circumstances and decide it didn't kill us and we're gonna still care about them anyway. Enjoy the time you have with another, and don't take it as a personal condemnation of yourself when they make choices that don't include us and our feelings. Saying "I'm not ready for a relationship!" is a misnomer, usually it should be rephrased as, "I'm not to dedicate myself to THAT relationship!" It is an error on our part to interpret the end of a relationship as a judgement of ourselves, when as a rule, it is an open and honest sharing of the pronouncers feelings. They may not even know the specifics themselves, they are only reacting to what they are feeling at the moment. Concentrate on the good, there's more of it than we usually realize, especially if we're preoccupied.


Good points and very well said.



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Nov 08, 2005 11:39

Gotta say you're wrong, PB You're the one who gets to decide whether your feelings and misgivings about this guy puts YOU into the 'not ready for a relationship' category, or whether you want to take the chance of passing those exact feelings you've just experienced along to the next few folks you meet. Human judgement, it ain't perfect, and it sometimes ain't pretty, but it's as individual as each of us are. That's part of the meeting and learning process.

I sincerely hope the one who is worth your tears never makes you cry, but I fall back on the 'individuality' defense, and believe that the imperfections of all of us will make us cry at one time or another. Love is when we bite the bullet and realize the circumstances and decide it didn't kill us and we're gonna still care about them anyway. Enjoy the time you have with another, and don't take it as a personal condemnation of yourself when they make choices that don't include us and our feelings. Saying "I'm not ready for a relationship!" is a misnomer, usually it should be rephrased as, "I'm not to dedicate myself to THAT relationship!" It is an error on our part to interpret the end of a relationship as a judgement of ourselves, when as a rule, it is an open and honest sharing of the pronouncers feelings. They may not even know the specifics themselves, they are only reacting to what they are feeling at the moment. Concentrate on the good, there's more of it than we usually realize, especially if we're preoccupied.

  


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Nov 05, 2005 08:13

hddude45 write:
Isn't it a "mulligan" when you are allowed a second chance at the hole?

Isn't that only in golf?
Isn't it a "mulligan" when you are allowed a second chance at the hole?

Isn't that only in golf?

I THINK ITS ONLY IN GOLF.......LMAO



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Nov 05, 2005 08:10

Weenie write:
stillme67 write:

notythots write:
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..



i don't know why people won't just step up to the plate and come clean with a situation..men or women. the line "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" is complete bullsshit. i have been told that i am too blunt. maybe i am or maybe i'm not but people always know where they stand with me.

there is nothing wrong with that brother, if you can't speak the truth with me, then don't speak at all

WITH YOU 150 % WINNIE...SORRY I NEVER GOT IN TOUCH, SOME STUFF CAME UP WITH MY DAUGHTER AND ALL HE-LL BROKE LOOSE UP HERE, I WAS SO CLOSE,...IT'S LIKE THEY SAY " A DOLLAR SHORT AND A DAY LATE" BUT SHOULD BE BACK AROUND IN LATE DEC OR EARLY JAN......I ALSO LEFT MY BIKE THERE IN GOOD HANDS TO RIDE WHEN I AM THERE..........



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