Question for the Men Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Apr 04, 2006 at 06:48


    justyforya write:
    nittekitten write:
    DirtyBikers4Eva write:
    Remember that song.. UNANSWERED PRAYERS???


    Being alone is not that bad. When you are alone, you don't have to put up with anyone else's crap. I know you heard this one before but... be secure and learn to be happy without anyone else. I think as you get older it's harder to adjust to being around someone else. You become set in your ways.


    justyforya...i've been on my own for years and years. i spent 4 of those totally engrossed in my house and kids, nothing else. plenty of time to appreciate being alone, and got myself together pretty well i think. then when i do start to date, i find people our age still playing the games from high school. i just don't understand.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 03, 2006 at 23:05


    nittekitten write:
    okay, update. the guy in the aforementioned post i put up called me at 2am last night. havent heard from him in over a month. GUESS what he said. go ahead, guess. "I'M SORRY, I GOT SCARED." THE EASIEST COPOUT IN THE MALE LANGUAGE.
    paleeez...all i know is i'm a good person, a real person, and i deserve
    better in my life.


    ahhhhh the call ya at 2 am thanngg... yeah right I bet he was drunk, horny and alone..... Did he ask you to pick him up at the bar too?
  • View author's info posted on Apr 03, 2006 at 23:03


    frenchgypsy write:
    I'm curious, is there a "limit" to how long posts should be on here or what they should be about? I certainly wouldn't want to be violating some code of ethics.

    I'm on numerous other Net forums on various topics and even run a few of my own, and all have different guidelines. I haven't found anything here that gives specifics as to what is allowed and what is not.

    Can someone enlighten me?

    PlEZ Kkept po3tlng l3ss thaN 20 WEORDS ... W3 bIKers ar3 veEY 3low
  • View author's info posted on Apr 03, 2006 at 22:54


    DirtyBikers4Eva write:
    FrenchGypsy, words to live by sweetness!!

    A MAN A BOY AND A DONKEY!

    An old man, a boy & a donkey were going to town. The boy rode on the donkey & the old man walked. As they went along they passed some people who remarked it was a shame the old man was walking & the boy was riding.

    The man & boy thought maybe the critics were right, so they changed positions.

    Later, they passed some people that remarked, "What a shame, he makes that little boy walk."

    They then decided they both would walk! Soon they passed some more people who thought they were stupid to walk when they had a decent donkey to ride. So, they both rode the donkey.

    Now they passed some people that shamed them by saying how awful to put such a load on a poor donkey.

    The boy & man said they were probably right, so they decide to carry the donkey. As they crossed the bridge, they lost their grip on the animal & he fell into the river and drowned.

    The moral of the story?

    If you try to please everyone, you might as well...
    Kiss your aRss good-bye.

    You post whateva u like!!!

    Cool story, good advice, Nor Cal rocks
  • View author's info posted on Apr 03, 2006 at 22:41


    nittekitten write:
    DirtyBikers4Eva write:
    Remember that song.. UNANSWERED PRAYERS???


    I've just went thru something similar.
    We can't let it break our spirit. None
    of us want to grow old alone. We all
    want someone to share it with. Don't
    ever give up on the "happily ever
    after" fairy tale. Remember, "God
    bless the broken road" its a great
    song.
    After I knew the relationship was over,
    I also knew I was supposed to learn
    something from it. I also wondered why
    I even needed that lesson at my age.
    (maybe a refresher course lol) But it
    changed me, made me stronger. Made me
    realize, its time to make the changes
    in my life that I've put off for so
    long. I'm a better person for it. And
    I know if I keep looking, I run the
    risk of it happening again. We all do.
    But I believe in happiness. Its out
    there somewhere.

    Being alone is not that bad. When you are alone, you don't have to put up with anyone else's crap. I know you heard this one before but... be secure and learn to be happy without anyone else. I think as you get older it's harder to adjust to being around someone else. You become set in your ways.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 15, 2006 at 20:55


    I know what you mean Mazen. I know If I met that special person i would have no problem relcocating . but than I am very adventurous and spontaneous.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 14, 2006 at 15:46


    i have no idea what everyone else is looking for in a relationship, nor do i care. relationships are like bikes....especially harley's. you can have 2 identical bikes, but they run different...why? who knows......you just keep trying em until you find the one that no matter what the problems are, you just have to have it no matter what anyone says. it took me 20 years to find my perfect bike....i guess it may take me another 20 of trial and error to find the right woman to ride with me......but its something i am willing to go through, i wont settle.....again.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 14, 2006 at 12:28


    sugar have the voices been coming more then before? Its ok pay no mind it is not as if there is any help for you so for the love of god as hard as it is accept your fate.
    Thank you for sharing Sybil Good luck and take a deep breath go to the happy place
  • View author's info posted on Mar 14, 2006 at 12:16


    What are all you people smokin?
  • View author's info posted on Mar 14, 2006 at 12:12


    you loser's need a total lobotomy
    god bless
  • View author's info posted on Mar 14, 2006 at 12:08


    ah maybe you just pick your nose?
  • View author's info posted on Mar 14, 2006 at 12:06


    yeah in a perfect world MANCHESTER
  • View author's info posted on Mar 12, 2006 at 13:13


    I agree Nitekitten.
    Just alot of BS. the ones that treat us that way, well I think it has to be a pattern like blue says ...what comes around surely will get ya .. I know tehe one that did it to me.. well get.. All I can say is OH WEll lol lol.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 12, 2006 at 13:11


    What is the right man??? lol lol lol
  • View author's info posted on Mar 12, 2006 at 13:10


    Blue
    I agree 100% with that.What goes around surely will come back on you 10 times fold. Everything that happens to us is for sure a learning experience. just makes me wiser and smarter, hopefully the right one will come along.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 10, 2006 at 17:14


    Nokia47 write:
    I agree both sides do it.I
    m beginning to think about 75% are B.S on the net.My personal thought and opionion is and we know what everyone thinks about those LOL . Be friends if something is meant to be it will and if it
    s not it won
    t.

    My thoughts exactly!
    friends rock. The bs I have seen online has been positively scary. I think, make some friends who share riding...and then ...forget the online stuff.
    DD
  • View author's info posted on Mar 10, 2006 at 10:10


    you got that right Marzen, obviously he was the wrong guy.. but he choose me LOL I,m not not losing sleep over him, and life goes on, just protectin the heart a little stronger now .
  • View author's info posted on Mar 09, 2006 at 23:14


    I agree both sides do it.I
    m beginning to think about 75% are B.S on the net.My personal thought and opionion is and we know what everyone thinks about those LOL . Be friends if something is meant to be it will and if it
    s not it won
    t.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 08, 2006 at 04:37


    ITS NOT JUST MEN THAT DO THIS ITS WOMEN ASWELL IT JUST PROVES THAT THEY ARE IMMATURE AND INSECURE WITHIN THEMSELVES AND MAYBE JUST MAYBE ONE DAY THEY WILL GROW UP AND AT THE END OF THE DAY THEY SAY WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND SO MAYBE WHEN THEY FIND SOMEONE THEY REALLY LIKE AND WANT TO BE WITH THE SAME MIGHT HAPPEN TO THEM
  • View author's info posted on Mar 03, 2006 at 07:12


    okay, update. the guy in the aforementioned post i put up called me at 2am last night. havent heard from him in over a month. GUESS what he said. go ahead, guess. "I'M SORRY, I GOT SCARED." THE EASIEST COPOUT IN THE MALE LANGUAGE.
    paleeez...all i know is i'm a good person, a real person, and i deserve
    better in my life.
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