my ex wanted the security of being married with the freedom of the single life with all the benifits she did the same with her second husband
have not seen her in 7 years life is great

thats the truth it's a two way street for sure

If you don't remember then you won't learn and you'll make the same mistakes yourself. It's just as important to remember what YOU did right and wrong in the relationship, too.

She started to beat on me...............Nuf said.

I know why but it's something best left alone nothing to gain from dwelling on it no I have not talked to her in couple years.She was at our daughters graduation saw no reason to speak to her she didn;t try to talk to me ,if our daughter needs anything she will let me know with out her mom being in it.

Yep, I remember but it doesn't matter now. We have no contact, he doesn't even contact his kids.

yes i do--like Suz the reason he is my ex

in touch--only if it has to do with my adult children

Yeah. She convinced me we should get married. Still in contact? Not likely.

I still get nightmares....

Yeah I remember.....and thats why he's my ex lmao....