Someone's "ol' lady" Relationship

  • View author's info posted on May 22, 2006 05:36


    TnTrBak write:
    Becca, Char, Nodey, Bill, Slim, Kitty, Christiana, and Sheri, and anyone else I've forgotten, my bad.

    There's always one in a crowd.

    Red


    eeeeeeyaaaaaa!

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  • View author's info posted on May 22, 2006 05:31


    DirtyBikers4Eva write:

    TnTrBak write:
    Becca, Char, Nodey, Bill, Slim, Kitty, Christiana, and Sheri, and anyone else I've forgotten, my bad.

    There's always one in a crowd.

    Red


    Hey is that me second on the left??? Ha ha ha!!


    LMFAO! Hell no, you know who that is...
    evil laugh....

    Sheri say's "Hello" we're on the phone right now breakin bawls.........LOL

    HUGZnKISSES!
  • View author's info posted on May 22, 2006 05:30


    TnTrBak write:
    Becca, Char, Nodey, Bill, Slim, Kitty, Christiana, and Sheri, and anyone else I've forgotten, my bad.

    There's always one in a crowd.

    Red

    Hey is that me second on the left??? Ha ha ha!!
  • View author's info posted on May 22, 2006 05:29


    SeminoleSlim write:
    stillme67 write:
    DirtyBikers4Eva write:
    Heretic write:
    I missed the cutoff for the drool, DirtyBikers. I was born in '71....I do ride to Sac. pretty often though, I would enjoy the company if you are up for a ride


    Hey heretic, just to clarify I am not a single woman. However if you ever want to ride with us that would be great. Also we ride with a group called United Bikers of Northern Calif. A wonderful crowd its on ahoo groups. take a look sign the guest book and come out and play with us.. Its not a Patched club just mostly a political group. We do a whole lot of ridin and charity events. You would love it!!


    that's a big ol' handful of boob Guy's got there! great pic of you two. hope all is going well for you guys.
    i'd never wash my hand again! ah, what a lucky man he is. lol

    Well then you would have some REALLY stinky fingers!!!! ROFLMFAO!!!! sorry I just had to say it!
  • View author's info posted on May 22, 2006 05:24


    Becca, Char, Nodey, Bill, Slim, Kitty, Christiana, and Sheri, and anyone else I've forgotten, my bad.

    There's always one in a crowd.

    Red

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  • View author's info posted on May 21, 2006 15:42


    DirtyBikers4Eva write:
    Hey Nodey,
    I agree with you about abused women. Of course there are some extreme cases where its not the womans fault for stayin.. I do have some empathy for those women but honestly, I think that women cry wolf a whole lot too and use that position to make peeps feel sorry for them when in reality they #1 Star the violence or #2 Claim mistreatment as a way to manipulate either the courts or the system or friends. Real abuse is always wrong thats for sure.

    The "ol' Lady" thing?? Well I think whatever is right between two peeps is thier business and all good if it makes them happy. You know me, LMAO I have an opinion about everything ha ha.. I think I just like to hear myself talk.

    Hope all is well fer ya girl we are doing fabulous out here in the West. Hope the sun shines on everybody!


    No Problem. It's all about respect.
  • View author's info posted on May 21, 2006 15:41


    hdbabygirl73 write:
    Ok..so lets see, you have been abused in the past..your not sure about how you would feel about being called and ol'lady..and im niave and disrespectful how?? Just because I look young believe me ppl I am not, I am a college graduate, I put myself through school because my parents could not afford it, like i said in another thread i grew up in biker country, my mom had brawled with the best, probably at one time or another maybe even brawled with some of you..lol gotta luv mom, this is my roots, but there is no legislation in biker country that states i have to agree with this topic, I respect and value your opinions, and live life to your fullest. All I want to do is ride man, I just don't want the politics that I was taught. Now being said, any bitches wanna step up..lets do it. For i am a kung foo master..my master has taught me well...eeeeewhaaaaa!


    Lol,I never once said anything about you LOOKING young. This has nothing to do about looks,but things you have said.

    Nough said.
  • View author's info posted on May 21, 2006 11:05


    hdbabygirl73 write:
    Ok..so lets see, you have been abused in the past..your not sure about how you would feel about being called and ol'lady..and im niave and disrespectful how?? Just because I look young believe me ppl I am not, I am a college graduate, I put myself through school because my parents could not afford it, like i said in another thread i grew up in biker country, my mom had brawled with the best, probably at one time or another maybe even brawled with some of you..lol gotta luv mom, this is my roots, but there is no legislation in biker country that states i have to agree with this topic, I respect and value your opinions, and live life to your fullest. All I want to do is ride man, I just don't want the politics that I was taught. Now being said, any bitches wanna step up..lets do it. For i am a kung foo master..my master has taught me well...eeeeewhaaaaa!

    oh brother.......... yer borin me!! Ifin yer mom has somethin to offer us then maybe she should be here instead of you.. We would probably like her better. You may have more fun on another site like say, romper room!!
    kung foo fool!! What an idiot, I'm leanin towards TnT's analagy, You sure you are even over 18?? Someone set her parental controls on her puter will ya??
  • View author's info posted on May 21, 2006 10:28


    SeminoleSlim write:

    thunderunderme write:
    SeminoleSlim write:
    No thanks. I'm on a strick diet of beer and Viagra.


    and Tony the Tiger says It's GREAAAAAT. If hdbg doesn't want her spanking can I have it please? huh huh can I?


    be careful what you ask for ... i will be there for your rally. lol

    Well Yippeeskippee....I've been a baaaad girl daddy. LMAO
  • View author's info posted on May 21, 2006 09:48


    hdbabygirl73 write:
    Ok..so lets see, you have been abused in the past..your not sure about how you would feel about being called and ol'lady..and im niave and disrespectful how?? Just because I look young believe me ppl I am not, I am a college graduate, I put myself through school because my parents could not afford it, like i said in another thread i grew up in biker country, my mom had brawled with the best, probably at one time or another maybe even brawled with some of you..lol gotta luv mom, this is my roots, but there is no legislation in biker country that states i have to agree with this topic, I respect and value your opinions, and live life to your fullest. All I want to do is ride man, I just don't want the politics that I was taught. Now being said, any bitches wanna step up..lets do it. For i am a kung foo master..my master has taught me well...eeeeewhaaaaa!

    .....
  • View author's info posted on May 21, 2006 07:32


    thunderunderme write:
    SeminoleSlim write:
    No thanks. I'm on a strick diet of beer and Viagra.


    and Tony the Tiger says It's GREAAAAAT. If hdbg doesn't want her spanking can I have it please? huh huh can I?

    be careful what you ask for ... i will be there for your rally. lol
  • View author's info posted on May 20, 2006 17:42


    hdbabygirl>
    LOL@IM. Are you really a woman? Or really drunk last night? Stalker by chance? Do you remember last night? You are not bothering me, but Becca was right about a "fungus among us".

    Tom's wondering the same thing, what are you really after? We're both starting to wonder if that's you in 'ur pics. IF, that is you, you are good looking, but you're not our type.

    Tam n Tom
  • View author's info posted on May 19, 2006 14:43


    stillme67 write:
    DirtyBikers4Eva write:
    Heretic write:
    I missed the cutoff for the drool, DirtyBikers. I was born in '71....I do ride to Sac. pretty often though, I would enjoy the company if you are up for a ride


    Hey heretic, just to clarify I am not a single woman. However if you ever want to ride with us that would be great. Also we ride with a group called United Bikers of Northern Calif. A wonderful crowd its on ahoo groups. take a look sign the guest book and come out and play with us.. Its not a Patched club just mostly a political group. We do a whole lot of ridin and charity events. You would love it!!


    that's a big ol' handful of boob Guy's got there! great pic of you two. hope all is going well for you guys.

    Missin ya bro!! We are all good in the hood!! You need to come out here this summer and see how WE DO IT!!!
  • View author's info posted on May 19, 2006 10:44


    Ok..so lets see, you have been abused in the past..your not sure about how you would feel about being called and ol'lady..and im niave and disrespectful how?? Just because I look young believe me ppl I am not, I am a college graduate, I put myself through school because my parents could not afford it, like i said in another thread i grew up in biker country, my mom had brawled with the best, probably at one time or another maybe even brawled with some of you..lol gotta luv mom, this is my roots, but there is no legislation in biker country that states i have to agree with this topic, I respect and value your opinions, and live life to your fullest. All I want to do is ride man, I just don't want the politics that I was taught. Now being said, any bitches wanna step up..lets do it. For i am a kung foo master..my master has taught me well...eeeeewhaaaaa!
  • View author's info posted on May 19, 2006 10:32


    stillme67 write:
    DirtyBikers4Eva write:
    Heretic write:
    I missed the cutoff for the drool, DirtyBikers. I was born in '71....I do ride to Sac. pretty often though, I would enjoy the company if you are up for a ride


    Hey heretic, just to clarify I am not a single woman. However if you ever want to ride with us that would be great. Also we ride with a group called United Bikers of Northern Calif. A wonderful crowd its on ahoo groups. take a look sign the guest book and come out and play with us.. Its not a Patched club just mostly a political group. We do a whole lot of ridin and charity events. You would love it!!


    that's a big ol' handful of boob Guy's got there! great pic of you two. hope all is going well for you guys.
    i'd never wash my hand again! ah, what a lucky man he is. lol
  • View author's info posted on May 19, 2006 10:05


    Heretic write:
    hey DirtyBikers, I was NOT looking for a date. I appologise if I was unclear. I knew you were a couple, and was just looking for riding partners. I ride with the UBNC as well, but am always looking for more people to ride with.

    the first round is on me if you want to hit Granzellas, for lunch some weekend

    Hell ya!! We like that place... Also, we hang at a place called the 21 Club in Yuba City Ca.. Every Frid and Sat night if ya wanna meet some great peeps and sing some Kareoakee with a bunch of drunk but super cool bikers swing on in and we'll show ya a good time bro!!
  • View author's info posted on May 18, 2006 23:36


    hey DirtyBikers, I was NOT looking for a date. I appologise if I was unclear. I knew you were a couple, and was just looking for riding partners. I ride with the UBNC as well, but am always looking for more people to ride with.

    the first round is on me if you want to hit Granzellas, for lunch some weekend
  • View author's info posted on May 18, 2006 15:28


    SeminoleSlim write:
    No thanks. I'm on a strick diet of beer and Viagra.


    and Tony the Tiger says It's GREAAAAAT. If hdbg doesn't want her spanking can I have it please? huh huh can I?
  • View author's info posted on May 18, 2006 10:21


    DirtyBikers4Eva write:
    thunderunderme write:
    hdbabygirl73 write:
    I have to say the creative writing from SNO was really good, I think everyone has mis interpeted what I meant by that, maybe I should elaborate a little further. I was sitting on at a picnic table having a beer with a few friends when a woman walked over to sit with her beer, just to find out that it wasn't her beer, it was he ol' man's. As he took a sip he spit it in her face and then proceeded to dump it over her head because it had too much foam in it, when i grabbed some napkins to help her out, he barked at me to leave her alone, let her stay like that, maybe she'll learn. i can see it in her face how humiliated and hurt she was, and was trying her hardest to hold back the tears. He made her get up to get another beer, and I followed her to help clean her up anyway, I told her no one has to take that, and she responded by saying, r u crazy? That's my ol' man. I am not saying the term ol'lady is a bad term, or I wouldn't object to someone i really cared about calling me that, it just seems ( who knows maybe in my area )that all the women I have met over the years who use that term are battered and bruised and very un happy. I apoligize if I offeneded anyone.


    That has nothing to do w/being someone's ol'lady. We teach people how to treat us...and she let him treat her that way. That was her choice. If she didn't want that then she did not have to tolerate it.
    My husband would never have spit in my face b/c he knew I would not tolerate that. And besides he probably would have been the one bringing me a beer...lol
    Being someone's ol'lady or ol'man does not mean they can be disrespectful or degrading or that it has to be tolerated.
    I do not feel bad for her, she chooses that treatment. If she did not, she would not tolerate it.

    If there is anything disrespectful and demeaning to women, its other women always playing the victim and blaming thier life's plight on others!! It makes women look like retards. Im with Char, there are no victims in a adult relationship. We women are smart resourceful and very manipulative, we rule our own worlds and whatever happens or does not happen is our own doing. Soo sick of women acting helpless and blaming everything on others... makes me wanna puke!!



    I haven't responded on this thread,but have been reading it everyday.May I call you Becca,since we've never formally met?

    Anyway Becca,I do agree with you in some ways. Some of us women are strong and won't allow ourselves to be abused. it happened to me ONCE. And he went to jail,and I followed it through as far as the legal system would allow. I never looked back afterwards.
    But we have to remember,there are many women out there who don't have the courage,whether it be from living a life from childhood on up,that realize there are other options out there for them.
    Lol,maybe some of us are too stubborn to let anyone abuse us and get away with it.

    With that being said,HdBabyGirl,I find you a very naive,disrespectful girl. Try to look beyond your little world,and what you have experienced yourself. Believe it or not,there is a whole other world out there.I myself have never been called anyone's "ol lady". I truthfully cannot say how I would respond.But I would think it would depend on the intentions of the one calling me that.
  • View author's info posted on May 18, 2006 07:07


    DirtyBikers4Eva write:
    Heretic write:
    I missed the cutoff for the drool, DirtyBikers. I was born in '71....I do ride to Sac. pretty often though, I would enjoy the company if you are up for a ride


    Hey heretic, just to clarify I am not a single woman. However if you ever want to ride with us that would be great. Also we ride with a group called United Bikers of Northern Calif. A wonderful crowd its on ahoo groups. take a look sign the guest book and come out and play with us.. Its not a Patched club just mostly a political group. We do a whole lot of ridin and charity events. You would love it!!


    that's a big ol' handful of boob Guy's got there! great pic of you two. hope all is going well for you guys.
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