IS DATING AND SMOKIN A PROBLEM? Friendship

  • View author's info posted on May 09, 2006 at 16:07


    sweetbiker is smokin-yummmy

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  • View author's info posted on Apr 24, 2006 at 09:54


    andi346 write:
    bad

    Yes your right Andi,
    Smokeing is bad!
    Bad for me, bad for my wallet, bad for the people around me..
    Pretty bad all the way around and maybe one day I'll kick it, just don't have the drive to do it yet.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 24, 2006 at 08:48


    openroad888 write:
    As a smoker i belive it has turned people away

    It doesn't help, but everyone has a choice to make. Maybe you should just go out with smokers. I don't smoke, but I have dated women who do. They have been considerate.
    A couple were having sex and the man asked, "Do you smoke after sex?"
    She replied, " I don't know. I never looked."
  • View author's info posted on Apr 23, 2006 at 10:05


    bad
  • View author's info posted on Apr 11, 2006 at 12:25


    HarleyGurl35 write:

    Happykitty47 write:
    I wrote in this thread previously that I'd date a smoker.

    I revise that. After recently seeing someone who is probably THE MOST chronic chain smoker I've ever been around (although a considerate smoker, I will say) I will no longer date a smoker. Sorry, but really being anywhere near the smoke gives me headaches and I just don't like the smell that lingers on their clothes and skin.



    I'm with you on that one. I've never smoked and no one in the family does. I've tried to date those who do, but kissing just isn't that fresh and if that's not good, I just don't care to go f*arther. (Yes, f*arther was banned by the BK idiots.)

    And another thing. I watched my ex's grandfather (who was one of the most incredible men I've ever known) die of lung cancer. He never smoked. Even WITH the cancer, he was healthy as hell. I watched Grandmother sit at his bedside through his last hours. Now she is alone at 85 and doing her best to move forward after a 60+ year marriage.

    Beings we know smoking is a huge cause of lung cancer, I don't care to spend my later years in life sitting at a bedside. Don't care to lose my husband because he consistantly did something in his younger years that he knew had a big chance of killing him. It seems selfish to place your loved one in that position just for a bad habit you wouldn't cut.


    Great points ladies.

    I've been a smoker for 30 years now, in great shape considering the milage and abuse I've put this soul-shell through, but it's going to catch up with me for sure one day.
    The smokeing has cost me tons of money, lot's of breath, and most importantly.. I'm sure I've had more then a few good ladies who didn't consider me because of the smokeing.
    So I've cut down from about 3 packs a day (hows that for chronic smoking?) to less then a pack a day and hope to go cold turkey soon.
    You'll know I did it if you meet me on the road..
    I'll be the rider with his fingernails chewed down to his wrists.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 08, 2006 at 08:37


    shadowcat5462002 write:
    Hi all. I'm back to looking at Biker kiss after a year away.
    I would LOVE to find a non-smoking male my age to date that is cute, SINGLE, and lives in southeast MI (macomb county MI). The nice bikers I talk to in Royal Oak in the summer often are great...but I see them pull out cigarettes or cigars. (sad smiley :-( )


    yes that is so true shadowcat. I feel the same way about a woman, it seems like you find somebody you are attracted to but they smoke, whats up with that?? I find it really contradictory when they say they are looking for someone healthy, eats right, exercises and then they are a daily smoker?? WTF does that mean, you want a healthy man but you are killing yourself with cigarettes, doesnt make much sense to me. Just my opoinion.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 21, 2006 at 11:36


    gefallen write:
    Well I smoke... so I reckon it does not bother me if I date someone who does.

    Hell.. some dates I have had... I dont much care if they burn.

    AJ


    (( OUCH!!!!!! ))Must have been some awful and I mean AWFUL bad dates if you didn
    t care if they burned! lol (( OUCH! ))
  • View author's info posted on Feb 20, 2006 at 09:49


    Hi all. I'm back to looking at Biker kiss after a year away.
    I would LOVE to find a non-smoking male my age to date that is cute, SINGLE, and lives in southeast MI (macomb county MI). The nice bikers I talk to in Royal Oak in the summer often are great...but I see them pull out cigarettes or cigars. (sad smiley :-( )

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 18, 2006 at 18:22


    My doctor asked me how long I had been smoking. I told him I never smoked. He told me I was lying as my lungs are scarred from smoking. He clammed up when I told him it was second hand smoke. My parents smoked during my childhood. When I worked at Boeing people smoked in the buildings and where I was the branch manager at Snelling and Snelling the counselors smoked. They can't anymre as WA state banned smoking in public places and Federal buildings. My lungs are already damaged.

    I cannot be around smoke. I sold my condo in downtown Seattle as the woman downstairs smoked and it came up through the 100 year old floor boards. I'd come home to a big blue cloud of smoke. I found my clean clothes in my closet smelled of smoke. I had the floors sealed but in a building that old smoke seeps in no matter what.

    A couple of men I dated from BK smoked. They thought they could hide the fact. My profile said no smokers. One of them told me they can't date anyone if they say they smoke.

    My best friends husband works for RJ Reynolds. He works with billions of dollars of tobacco money and grades the tobacco. He is very considerate of me and smokes away from me when we hang out, eat dinner, or all of us go riding. I came to NC from the west coast, so I do not feel I can complain this being a tobacco state. I just do not go to restaurants or bars where there's more smoke than air. Zzoooom, -vetducgirl
  • View author's info posted on Feb 18, 2006 at 01:44


    I think it may depend on what you're smoking!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 17, 2006 at 09:00


    If my date aint SmmOOOkin, then he's not my date!! Ha ha ha
  • View author's info posted on Feb 17, 2006 at 06:55


    gefallen write:
    Well I smoke... so I reckon it does not bother me if I date someone who does.

    Hell.. some dates I have had... I dont much care if they burn.

    AJ

    AJ youd be smoking either way!!!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 17, 2006 at 01:55


    Well I smoke... so I reckon it does not bother me if I date someone who does.

    Hell.. some dates I have had... I dont much care if they burn.

    AJ
  • View author's info posted on Feb 13, 2006 at 18:15


    Well thats's hard to say.
    If she's smoking in bed, she will either set my house on fire or leave a smile on my face.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 01, 2006 at 15:39


    saxon write:
    dreamer8 write:
    I'd expect my date to be 'smokin'........cos he's HOT !


    Would that be through friction or cigarettes ??

    Aint it usually friction first,followed by cigs????
  • View author's info posted on Jan 27, 2006 at 07:57


    dreamer8 write:
    I'd expect my date to be 'smokin'........cos he's HOT !


    YUP!!! SSSSSMMMMMMMMOOOOKIN!!!
  • View author's info posted on Jan 27, 2006 at 06:17


    I'd expect my date to be 'smokin'........cos he's HOT !
  • View author's info posted on Jan 26, 2006 at 15:22


    bogeybob write:
    Well as I see it, our great President from here in Arkansas didn't have a problem with his cigars and Monica, might have been a little HARD to light.... ;)

    did you mean if Monica started smoking he should slow down ?
  • View author's info posted on Jan 25, 2006 at 04:57


    Well as I see it, our great President from here in Arkansas didn't have a problem with his cigars and Monica, might have been a little HARD to light.... ;)
  • View author's info posted on Jan 24, 2006 at 17:51


    Guess that just depends on WHAT yr smoking..lol...maybe it wont be a problem?
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