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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Dec 18, 2005 17:11

I am debating about letting my kids know I am on here. I would like to keep it private, as I don't want them to think if it's ok for me then it's ok for them - ya know teenagers are complete PITA's. So anyone with teens out there know you are on this website?



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Dec 26, 2005 18:09

My kiddies are 16,13 & 6 and they know about this site. They don't know that I have dated off here...well my 16 y/o does. They know this as a place that Mom chats and mets friends.
I like to be honest with the kids, so that they will be honest with me.



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 22, 2005 16:26

Well my girl is 10 and she has seen me on here and says "stop looking for a boyfriend mom"...lol.we were laffin bout it...she loves bikes and is very protective of her mom , but I dont feel I need to hide anything because i am not ashamed of what I do and never will be either..well unless I have had few too many then I am not responsible for my actions lol.But I dont drink around her sooo I am good!
These days the internet is known for chatting and emailing so theres nothing to hide!



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 22, 2005 10:31

If you have teens, likely they know more about what sites you visit than you do anyway.
And, likely they know you are looking for someone to date.
Your call though. Your kids after all.



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 22, 2005 08:03

my daughter knows about this site--she is older--i'm with Angel--if you hide it from them they can interpret it as sneaking around and it is like the old saying

do as i say not as i do--and we all know how good that one goes over

remember actions speak louder than words



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 22, 2005 04:59

Thanx sweetie...you're not so bad yourself!

  


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 22, 2005 03:49

Roxie0215 write:
My kids know about this site...they're cool with it

Your kids are cool..period...just like their Mom..

  


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Dec 21, 2005 08:47

My kids know about this site...they're cool with it



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Dec 21, 2005 07:26

I don't think I will tell them just yet. I am not sure how they would take it. So...they are on a need to know basis only!

Thanks all.



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Dec 20, 2005 12:45

My kids know about BK. I never did let on that it's a date-site, though, since I never considered it that way from the beginning!

I consider the site a great way to meet people, and I've let my kids know when I've gone to different bike events where BK-er's have attended, who I was able to meet, and the good times I was able to have because of those people.

If you keep an open mind and view of what this site is....and not just think of it as a singles/dating site, then your children will see and learn that same perspective.

Good luck in what you choose to do!

-Rev



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Dec 19, 2005 20:41

Seems to me what you're teaching him is that it's ok to sneak! Be open and honest..don't try to hide anything that you do...that only makes it look wrong and suspicious! Peace...Angel

  


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Dec 19, 2005 19:40

Hey, I have a teenager, he is almost 17 and I really don't hide much from him, he knows I am on here, and he thinks its pretty cool, besides, keeps me out of his hair!! Also, he has already learned just because I do something, that doesn't mean he gets to. We have been through this many times.

  


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Dec 19, 2005 16:30

I don't try and hide it..but this is my playtime! If I meet people I choose to bring into my physical life then my kids will meet them if I choose. Until then...it doesn't concern them.