Can you remember what your ex did which is unforge Relationship

  • View author's info Author posted on Jan 02, 2006 21:38


    Can anyone still recall what your ex(bf/gf) did which touches you and till now you are still unable to forget? Like to share?..

    & do you still remember them or keep in touch with them ??
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  • View author's info posted on Aug 12, 2010 14:21


    Where do you start when someone you trusted with your heart and soul cheats on you after 3 years. After they said they will spend the rest of their lives growing old with you. Then to top it off she gets married less than 3 months after she broke it off with. Thank my lucky stars or Karma that I didn't give her the ring I had saved on for over a year. You know they will cheat on the new one because they did it before. Live, learn and move on with your head high is what I say. Take the high road and real love comes to you when you least expect it.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 09, 2010 10:44


    mine made a cold-hearted remark about a late boyfriend who had died in a motorcycle accident and said that he was glad our child died (miscarriage) if i was going to be the mother....then two days later i was supposed to forget about it...i didn't

  • View author's info posted on Jun 10, 2009 13:33


    I just try to be the best I can be...Doesn't mean perfect.
    When someone tried to control me I learned I needed to try not to be controling...When some one hurt the one they loved...I tried not to do that. It boils down to the golden rules...1. Do unto others...
    and... 2. Don't do to others what you don't like...
    I have had some expeience with these lessons and found that if I don't learn, I am doomed to repeat and the trick is to learn from the ones in front of me.
    My job is to spot these in others before I commit to them or ask for a commitment. That is what dating is for...I think.
  • View author's info posted on Mar 08, 2009 12:26


    no tellin about some guys harleybiker41

    thanks for your service and welcome home
  • View author's info posted on Mar 07, 2009 22:02


    My ex took me for $24.000 and sold my harley why i was serving over seas.
    Still wearing the scars and still i wear the knife in my back.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 30, 2008 07:52


    YEAH, THE DAY THEY TRADED THEIR WEDDING RINGS FOR CRACK.
  • View author's info posted on Oct 06, 2008 23:20


    Well written njbikerbabe02!

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  • View author's info posted on Sep 28, 2008 16:23


    Things that your ex did which is unforgetable. Pretty much everything.
    They are called Exs for a very good reason.

    He left debts & me with his child in very bad situation 9 years ago. He left - was his choice.

    9 years later & hes still pulling crap. He is just plain sick.

    I have moved on in my life - I wish he would move on with his.

    The ex was a life lesson that was well learned.

    I'm not angry - there is no point. Things happen & you move on. You learn from your experiences.

    If you are doing crap to haunt an ex - it is mental illness. For gawd sake help & leave your ex alone.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 17, 2007 11:14


    I'm fairly new here and this is my first post. My ex has only been so since September of 06, but the wounds are still fresh. After a 14 year marriage, he just up and decided that he didn't want to be married to me any more, I think his decision was partly based on his relationship with his "friend" in AT. Even he admits that we had a good thing for most of our 14 years. There are many things I can't forgive him for, but the main thing would be for not talking to ME. He was talking to his friends, family and pretty much any one else, I never new he was unhappy. Since he walked out he has become someone I don't even know, he even promised he would take take out insurance on me when it came up for renewal so I could have what may have been a life threatening issue checked out (turns out that it wasn't) Anyhow the whole time he was telling me this, he new that he wasn't going to take it out, he only insured himself. There are many things that he's done to me since he left that would be hard to forgive, I try very hard to focus on the wonderful years that we shared and not on the horrible end of our marriage. I have also tried to learn from this and know that everything happens for a reason, I just have to be patient, even now I do not hate him and would never want to see him come to any harm, but I have slowly learned to keep my distance emotionally.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 22, 2006 10:24


    I remember it only too well and no, I no longer speak to him. Some things are just to unforgivable.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 16, 2006 01:49


    yes i remember all to well,just got out of a violent relasionship and am enjoying being single,i think its taught me a lot about the love of life n not too dwell on the negativity.so thankyou u wa***r you did me a favour.and i forgive you :)
  • View author's info posted on Aug 31, 2006 18:54


    yes, but, I am still friends with all of them, except last one he is permanently mad at me, but he will come around eventually!

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 15, 2006 23:23


    Hi,
    well as I recall there were/are a lot great things to remember but as one commented things come to an end for one reason or an other.And yes,some are painful but if i want to grow ,I need to forgive and bless them on their way,otherwise I will not be free and able to enjoy the next gift that is given to me.Hanging on in anger only limits me and does absolutely nothing to anyone else,I end up being the real looser.Therefore I learned to forgive and let go,I am free .................
    Keep the rubber side down
    Chris

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 01, 2006 17:08


    After 13 yrs of marriage and him in and out of jail, dui, dwi's etc... he told me he wasnt in love with me for the last 7 years of our marriage. All that money paid for court costs, jail time, and booze well he can have it. I left very soon afterwards...and wish I had done it sooner
  • View author's info posted on Jul 26, 2006 21:34


    she hated all things having to do with harleys and muscle cars. That was not the best for our marriage. She was also insanely jealous. I found ways to deal with this, and loved her anyway
  • View author's info posted on Jul 24, 2006 12:30


    cashcard923 write:
    Can anyone still recall what your ex(bf/gf) did which touches you and till now you are still unable to forget? Like to share?..

    & do you still remember them or keep in touch with them ??


    When they are ex they are ex. Otherwise they wouldn't be ex.
    X marks the spot. This is all very Xtensive...and xillerating. Xtremely weird. Or maybe she was Y. Never did really find out what axis she was on.Xactly. Now I know. Xcuse me.
    XXXXXOOOOO
  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2006 13:11


    whoa you doing crazy that funny story
    im know what you like goood yourself . but im help my best friend there of my good help them going bar . we good friend people there safe now so then what youthink so we though youare good mood story stronger now thank you andrea
  • View author's info posted on Jul 19, 2006 14:19


    cashcard923 write:
    Can anyone still recall what your ex(bf/gf) did which touches you and till now you are still unable to forget? Like to share?..

    & do you still remember them or keep in touch with them ??

    Umm, I recall every time he touched me, it touches me in a way that makes my skin crawl, cause his touching was not nice!!!!!! Something I will never forget.
    Can't keep in touch, he is 6 feet under.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 18, 2006 13:05


    Thank you, my White Knight!! This wench is curious if you'd still stand up for her if you knew she's a #20 fan!! LOL
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