i would not be able to take it if that happens to me... I hated it when my ex-gf told me that he had cohabit with other bf before they knew me or before in a relationship with me.. so if they meant to keep it from me then dun ever let me find out lo... otherwise it definitely a break off.
Ur courage to take it & carry on really impress me..
Made me late for my beloved Grandma's funeral b/c he HAD to go to WalMart photo center and pick up his pix from Daytona Bike Week. AND when I see them, EVERY SINGLE ONE is of other chix in lingerie and less ... bartenders, mud wrestlers, spectators, etc.
Oh, and regarding the post where the guy suggests the other guy use spell check, he's from Singapore and I'm thinking English is not his first language.
Well, I would say it's hard not to forget pain, especially emotional pain, so yes I remember. She cheated on me, a few times over 18 yrs. Do I dwell on it? Nope. I came out on the sweet end of the divorce. Got the house, got the kids, got a new bike, while she's got bankruptcy following her around for the next few years and struggles to survive without moving from guy to guy to support her. You know what they say, "what goes around, comes around." she's getting hers and reaping what she sowed. that's comfort enough for me.......
cashcard923 write: the most unforgettable thing my ex done for me today... got some arguement with her... then went down to her house to talk peace with her... then she dun wana come out....
after i waited for 2 hour..hoping that all misunderstanding can be solved she stiill never come out... then here come the poliec car... come n investigate me and ask me what i am doing at that area.
I say i waiting for my gf as i hav some argument with her. then they ask me to call her to proof that she live over there.. but she die oso dun wana pick up the call... i even msg her the police is here le...
then after a while, the police let me go... then i tell her to fu*k off liao... heartless creacture.... rather let me kena police case oso dun wana help me... so sad.. haiz~ wonder issiz her who call the police... girl r so heartless nowaday...haiZ~
now you know why it's best to forget Ex's and move on experience best teacher and ahh you might want try the spell check makes it lot easier to read these posts
the most unforgettable thing my ex done for me today...
got some arguement with her... then went down to her house to talk peace with her... then she dun wana come out....
after i waited for 2 hour..hoping that all misunderstanding can be solved she stiill never come out... then here come the poliec car... come n investigate me and ask me what i am doing at that area.
I say i waiting for my gf as i hav some argument with her. then they ask me to call her to proof that she live over there..
but she die oso dun wana pick up the call... i even msg her the police is here le...
then after a while, the police let me go...
then i tell her to fu*k off liao... heartless creacture.... rather let me kena police case oso dun wana help me...
so sad..
haiz~
wonder issiz her who call the police...
girl r so heartless nowaday...haiZ~
He had a weekend fling 6 years ago, cried and begged forgiveness. I caved.
5 years later, goes to another country and does it again. Cried and begged forgiveness. I didn't cave that time.
Looking back...I now see he most likely had affairs on me the whole 11 years. It's somewhat obvious now that I'm not blinded by love.
I just thank God I didn't have children with him and he didn't give me some disease.
Hadn't seen him since April '04, the month the divorce was final. He cried and begged forgiveness. Still refused to cave. Haven't heard from him since.
Mine was along for the ride, got her through her Masters Degree, bills paid off and now she lives in Italy. Now she wants off the train and wants part of my retirement after 4yrs. So she will soon be my ex and no I do not talk to her even now.
Jus my personal point of view, It seems like practically bedded all their ex-gf before.. n they recalled what happens during the breakoff /quarrel times?
What about the sweet sweet times when everything was like between u n her/him.. anything that memorable?
Mine was still thinking of his ex without mentioning anything to me about how he had these feelings of "what if". He began communication with her to find out "what if" and didn't say a thing to me about it. He hid it very well.
Then, call them a woman's intuition or maybe just suspicion, I questioned him about it...which I got the response, "I love you, honey. We'll talk about it this weekend." Hmmmm...
Turned out he was trying to fix things with his ex but didn't let me in on any of it.
Over 1,200 miles later...I'm back where I was and he spent the holidays in jail.
Longer story than I have time for....
Will I forget it?? NO WAY!!!
Do we still keep in touch?? Restraining order in place... So, unless he wants to break it and face the repercussions.....