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Veröffentlicht am Tue, May 02, 2006 09:42

I know a 61 year old woman that married a 19 yar old boy. Yes he was a boy. Needless to say.. it didn't last long. As for older men and younger women.. While older guys do tend to look for someone nieve enough they can win arguments with, there are a lot of things that happen to men once they hit 40ish. They have that spare tire sometime or they are loosing their hair.. whats not gone is turning gray, just natural things that come with age. Somewhere along the line some of them get to second guessing themselves and honestly I think it has more to do with an ego stroke (when they can say heh i still got it) than anything else. As said before there is always exceptions to every thing. Sometimes it does in fact work out and the relationship is great. Other times.. eh not so much.

They find themself being drivin nuts my giggling, whinning, and temper tantrums of the sweet young thing with the hot bod they have managed to lure into the sack. And then spend a lot of times trying to fix a relationship that has no chance in hell of surviving... why?
Three words..
Nothing in common

Once you filter out the great sex and how wonderful she looks naked, and that starts to get routine, well..

You find that she likes rap.. you hate it. She thinks lime green fuzzy pillows are great throw pillows for your extremely expensive Saddle brown leather sofa.

She wants to put ninja graphics on the tanks of your new fat boy....

Her idea of a great time is ohhh i dont know.. Roller skating you however might prefer a nice blues concert or slow dance.

Just those types of issues will raise their head. Later you find she has no respect for family country or self.. and get sick of playing head games and competeing with all her younger suitors.

lol .. Sorry just venting actually I have seen this happen over and over again. Some guys figure out that young and pretty doesn't go near as far as secure stable and solid. Others.. well.. they prefer to stay in the illusion.

Like I said.. there is an exception to every thing. Sometimes he might be lucky enough to find someone young in body just older in soul and pretty much is comfortable with it.

As for myself.. Cant date younger men well at least not more than 5 yrs. We just come from a diffrent time.. literally very little in common.



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Apr 26, 2006 20:25

Badbikerkitty write:
WarHippy write:
I think there are two valid reasons for men being attracted to younger women.
1. Women mature emotionally younger than men, some of us guys have stopped believing that we're EVER gonna mature.
2. Women are for the most part, more intelligent than the male, sad but true guys, so it's hard for us to accept we're gonna be wrong most of the time, and we pick a younger girl so we can be right more often, or at least be able to BS the girl into thinking we're right.
Oh yeah,
3. Cuz we can, HA! HA! HA!

Lmfao....good one who you sucking up too? cant bullshit a bullshitter....lol

Anybody that'll believe me, the gullible ones

  


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Apr 25, 2006 09:42

WarHippy write:
I think there are two valid reasons for men being attracted to younger women.
1. Women mature emotionally younger than men, some of us guys have stopped believing that we're EVER gonna mature.
2. Women are for the most part, more intelligent than the male, sad but true guys, so it's hard for us to accept we're gonna be wrong most of the time, and we pick a younger girl so we can be right more often, or at least be able to BS the girl into thinking we're right.
Oh yeah,
3. Cuz we can, HA! HA! HA!

Lmfao....good one who you sucking up too? cant bullshit a bullshitter....lol



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Apr 24, 2006 06:39

I think there are two valid reasons for men being attracted to younger women.
1. Women mature emotionally younger than men, some of us guys have stopped believing that we're EVER gonna mature.
2. Women are for the most part, more intelligent than the male, sad but true guys, so it's hard for us to accept we're gonna be wrong most of the time, and we pick a younger girl so we can be right more often, or at least be able to BS the girl into thinking we're right.
Oh yeah,
3. Cuz we can, HA! HA! HA!



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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Apr 23, 2006 11:19

wind_dancer write:
Age only matters when you're cheese.
But seriously....

And Wine.



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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Apr 23, 2006 10:34

Oh thank you Ladies now I feel better.. but I still like ladies closer to my age.. Why.. Because maybe the Children are finally out on their own. That way we can Travel or do whatever we wish together. All I ask is that they enjoy life as we together make it..

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 20, 2006 22:56

As a woman dating a man 15 (yes, 15) years older than I, this is an issue that hits home. We have been together for almost 9 years now, and we share a better relationship than most couples I know. Of course there are ups and downs; what realtionship doesn't have those? But overall, we respect each other and are compatible on all levels. I won't say it is conducive for all people, but when it works, it really works. Shakespeare wrote, "Let me not to the marriage of true minds /admit impediments;" what matter the age if the hearts are true?



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 06, 2006 04:19

paula1962 write:
In the last 2 years I have dated men from 29 to 53 (lots of offers from men MUCH older but I just wasn't interested/attracted). I would have to say I prefer someone closer to my age, I'm 43 and in my opinion, men between 40 - 48 work best for me. I feel that as we age, its our experiences that (hopefully) mature us and a person in their early to mid 20's will not have the same level of maturity as a person in their 40's or 50's. There is always that exception, but I think its rare. Being with a "younger" man as opposed to an "older" man is like comparing fires. Ever see a dead Christmas tree go up? Its over in a matter of minutes/seconds even. Compared to a slow burning bon fire that can go on all night. Thats how I see the difference (intellectually and sexually). So you see Slim - your comment the other day about "Savoring" things makes you attractive to me. I don't care if you are a SLLLOOOWWW reader...

i looking for a ring right now before you change your mind ....



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 06, 2006 04:15

Badbikerkitty write:
I couldnt agree more .Age DOES not matter to me and it's the way the two people feel about each other if they can get along and want the same things in life then whats the difference of few yrs?i myself have always ended up with a man who was at least 15 yrs older.i like older men because they are more settled and not wanting to go party all the time .they know who they are and what they want!

ok Kitty, i get the hint ... i am just the right old age for you, right?



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 06, 2006 03:06

wind_dancer write:
Age only matters when you're cheese.
But seriously....what would a mature woman packing a lil bit of wisdom want with a man who's still squatting to pee like a pup? Course, I know a few older guys still doin that....lol

I've seen a few old dogs squatting to pee.. Seems like they could not hold their legs up any more.... Sad but true..



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Mar 29, 2006 04:07

In the last 2 years I have dated men from 29 to 53 (lots of offers from men MUCH older but I just wasn't interested/attracted). I would have to say I prefer someone closer to my age, I'm 43 and in my opinion, men between 40 - 48 work best for me. I feel that as we age, its our experiences that (hopefully) mature us and a person in their early to mid 20's will not have the same level of maturity as a person in their 40's or 50's. There is always that exception, but I think its rare. Being with a "younger" man as opposed to an "older" man is like comparing fires. Ever see a dead Christmas tree go up? Its over in a matter of minutes/seconds even. Compared to a slow burning bon fire that can go on all night. Thats how I see the difference (intellectually and sexually). So you see Slim - your comment the other day about "Savoring" things makes you attractive to me. I don't care if you are a SLLLOOOWWW reader...

  


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Mar 27, 2006 20:25

I like older. . . but not too much older. I try to stay closer to my age than my dad's age (which is 59) so on my profile I say up to 49. Certainly I would make an exception here or there; but in the past I've found that men older than 49 are not compatible with me. Maybe cuz they act like my dad--and he annoys me most of the time! It's a generation/authority thing I suppose. The only thing I didn't like about dating an older man was when he was giving me motorcycle lessons and he yelled at me "You better listen to me--not your father--I have been riding motorcylces longer than you are alive!!!"

  


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Mar 26, 2006 19:02

I agree totally. Although my preference is for women closer to my own age, simply because I like the idea of the maturity. But a few years ago I was in a relationship with a Lady that was about twelve years younger than me in body, but defiantly my equal in maturity. The only reason the relationship ended was we both reached a point of wanting different things in the relationship so we parted ways. Her and I are still very close friends to this day, but we've long since ended as lovers. I still have a great respect for her regardless.

So I have to agree, age is nothing but a number, and more importantly a level of maturity.



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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Mar 26, 2006 14:34

I couldnt agree more .Age DOEN not matter to me and it's the way the two people feel about each other if they can get along and want the same things in life then whats the difference of few yrs?i myself have always ended up with a man who was at least 15 yrs older.i like older men because they are more settled and not wanting to go party all the time .they know who they are and what they want!



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