i have been on here for a few months and now reasise that the only way to get anywere near a date.. is to have to pay alot of money out.. Is it worth it? has anyone hooked up together and made this site work for them? Im on a buget and feel im being pushed into paying just to have a look.. Anyone else feel the same?

yes that would be better.

I feel they should give a 1 month free trial before forcing someone to pay.

hi. thanks for the tip. cant say this is a site that works or not as i only look once in a while.
your a long way from me here in england. its not weather for biking just now. 
to cold for me! 
anyway, thanks for reply. 
jellyb. .x

hi. thanks for the tip. cant say this is a site that works or not as i only look once in a while.
your a long way from me here in england. its not weather for biking just now. 
to cold for me! 
anyway, thanks for reply. 
jellyb. england.x

Hi Jellyb, I pay the gold fee for three months at a time, and have met several lovely women over the few years I have been a member. I have enjoyed brief romances which ended by mutual agreement, and I have made some wonderful friends with whom I ride and party occasionally. Most of the ladies I have contacted were not gold members, but they wrote very interesting profiles which attracted me, or sent me a wink (every guy is a sucker for a wink from a girl) and I responded with an email. Not all contacts develop into a meeting, but I have had fun communicating with some penpals in other countries.
It has been worthwhile for me, despite some obvious scam artists operating as on all social sites, but you have to decide for yourself to spend the upgrade fee. I like the three month membership, and if I meet someone compatible in that time, great. If not, I leave it for a while and come back to it later. From my point of view, this site is less of a money grabber than a lot of other sites I have seen, like those which automatically deduct a membership fee from your account "for your convenience", and the membership is, on the whole, genuine.
Good luck,
Riderambler.